Good Morning Everyone,
Just wanted to say I feel like ive been going through withdrawls for the past few days. I fortunately read many of the articles in the library so I noticed and realized it this morning.
I have a few questions going through my mind also. Any imput would be appriciated.
How have you dealt with your withdrawls?? I notice I have alot of feelings going on. From happy, insecure, resentful, to not wanting to give up. Also trying to figure out the best way to deal with my feelings as well as help BS with his fellings.
Ive noticed that BS has been holding in many feelings and i often get the backlash. Ive been trying to talk about things with him when were alone and we've made some progress, but i still feel like Im not as much help.
He did tell me that he's been feeling angry, resentful for not being able to be with others since we've been together from such a young age, that he has been having self esteem issues, and yet he still wants to make this work.
Is there anything more I can do to help him?? Im not trying to say get over it but want to help him get through his feelings. He does seem Happy a little more but has issues usually late at night.
Also what do we do if we end up having to interact with the OM?? The OM is now dating a friend of ours that has a daughter we are godparents for.
Im so grateful for the SI site today. If I didnt read, understand, or was unable to ask questions I feel like I would possibly have backslid and went back to A's.