Then they had a short but friendly chat. I cried when he hung up. The moment just touched me. My BF was SICK about the A. She stood by me and asked him a lot of questions earlier this year. She told him how she felt. But when I told her we wanted to R, she told me that she would support that.
Truly, as my Maid of Honour, 15 years ago, she stood by her promise to be there for us in times of trouble. She sees the big picture. And I love her for that.
Just wanted to share.
How are things with your spouse and BF?
[This message edited by LA44 at 2:31 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday)]
She has supported me through R, but also him. It's been pretty awesome.
Me- BW, 28
Him- fWh, 34
Mostly R'd, minus a few scars...bought a house and got a puppy...And baby makes 3! She arrived August
My H is an officer. I made a joke about knowing someone but probably not anyone she would want lessons from. She said, dead seriously:
"IF I ever see him again, it should NEVER be when I have a gun in my hands."
She's the friend that if I showed up at her house in the middle of the night with a dead body in my car, would ask no questions, get her shovel and drive me deep into the desert to bury the body.
So I'm glad your H and BF can talk!!!
I am so glad that you have such a supportive friend. Hold on to that one, because friends like that don't come around every day.