If you are referring to the lies and deceit which surround the finances of our separation and lives, the false accusations you made about my intentions as a parent, stability, and mental capacities, the continued attempts of sabotage (i.e. entering my private email and deleting the entire account), your insistence on having a circus trial when mediation was offered to you several times, then I can honestly respond, “I’m working on it”. Why you chose to file for custody, go to trial, and make the preposterous claims as you did is beyond me. That one short sighted decision on your part has impacted our children’s lives, mine aside, in an enormous way not only financially but emotionally as well.
Fly, good job summing up so much in so few words.
Finally, you and I both made the mistake of underestimating my strength and perseverance. I will promise to you; I will never make that mistake again.
Finally, you and I both made the mistake of underestimating my strength and perseverance. I will promise to you; I will never make that mistake
Use it more as a journaling exercise.
Best just to vent and document...
By sending him this, even if you SAY you don't care, you are showing him that you do care. Because if you didn't care, you wouldn't send it.
Live your life. The best revenge is a life well-lived. Do it for yourself. Let him truly become an afterthought.
Married: 11 years, no kids
The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo
What helps me (most of the time) is visualising ego kibbles to him for any contact. Don't do it. a) it won't get through his thick skull; and b) it makes him seem important. He is irrelevant, continue to treat him as such.
Now that's out of the way.....what a kick arse letter!! Bravo!!