Hopeful mother don't know how true it is but he says the woman he talked to on the phone was not the one he slept with. That honor goes to some "friend of a friend". But I told him the number and length of phone calls constitute an EA. if ever thinking to reconcile I will find out cause a lie detector will be involved.
Anyway all I have is her phone number and first name, she's not in the reverse telephone directory and I don't know her boyfriend so busting her would be hard. Besides he claims the bf is a friend too and knows they have been talking (humph!)