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User Topic: Confronting Tomorrow. Could use advice
hopefulmother
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, whatever happens. I would out the "OW" after this is fixed. It sounds like someone he know well. And her "hotshot boyfriend" needs to know he is not so "hotshot". It is your H fault, but she didn't help out the situation either if she really did know about the legal problems. Sorry you can't go to SoCal. The good thing is, he sounds like he is reasonable to deal with.


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
The day he stopped talking about her and focused on REAL R. 10-4-12
BF 20yrs
Together since 2000
Married 9yrs with 2 toddlers
This is the exact moment when you can give him what he doesn't deserve-mercy and grace.

Posts: 678 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA-Ebensburg
careerlady
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Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hopeful mother don't know how true it is but he says the woman he talked to on the phone was not the one he slept with. That honor goes to some "friend of a friend". But I told him the number and length of phone calls constitute an EA. if ever thinking to reconcile I will find out cause a lie detector will be involved.

Anyway all I have is her phone number and first name, she's not in the reverse telephone directory and I don't know her boyfriend so busting her would be hard. Besides he claims the bf is a friend too and knows they have been talking (humph!)


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
Divorcing! Stupid in house separation though

Posts: 864 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
hopefulmother
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Member # 38790
Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, May 2nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I found all I really needed from FB. Did you try that?


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
The day he stopped talking about her and focused on REAL R. 10-4-12
BF 20yrs
Together since 2000
Married 9yrs with 2 toddlers
This is the exact moment when you can give him what he doesn't deserve-mercy and grace.

Posts: 678 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA-Ebensburg
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