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Default  Posted: 5:38 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ya'll are too funny!!! I needed a good laugh today. Thanks.

Shelly...I am so glad he was a nice guy. There are some out there you know, so I hope it works out for you. Have fun at the run!!!

M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think the run is just the ticket! Not exactly asking him out as Pass suggested but a good way to get to see each other interact with other folks.

Just fabulous..this thread made my face smile..I think it's going to hurt later.

I hate to watch guys bounce dimes off their butts, it gets boring. Especially when they roll over like good dogs wanting a belly rub but they do it themselves. And really they can't take their eyes off of their own wonderfulness.

God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've HAD Beaaauuutiful before.... it gets boring!! My ex-husband had the nicest ass though! It was like a big round bubble butt! He would be SO freakin popular in jail!!!

But....I need more substance now than just good looks. I'm tired of emotionally unavailable men who's only show of emotion is if the gym closes on a snow day.... NO THANKS...

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup...ask him out. He's probably scared poopless at the thought he might see you again and whether or not you will speak to him.

Ask him out for coffee or something.

And thanks for the update.


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6581 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j You are ALL amazons!! SAWH and I are both only 5'4" and *I* am the amazon in my family! The women in my family are all under 5'4" and them men are all over 6'. Tell me how we do that one!
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Congrats Shelly!!! I am so happy to see YOU so happy.

If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In college...I dated "pretty". Never worked out really well. STBX was by far the most unattractive man I dated, his personality won me over. Now look how that turned out! I look for substance, if it is in a pretty package, then it is a bonus, not a requirement.

I'm 5"2 I've dated as tall as 6'4. Funny, lots of guys commented on how happy they are that I am tiny. But, my BFF's husband loves that she is tall and willowy. To each his own.

me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings

Posts: 4186 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sigh. Never mind, I just got home from work and say the other post. Move along, nothing to see here...

[This message edited by JessicaFL127 at 10:52 PM, April 28th (Sunday)]

divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"

Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, April 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I enjoy these stories and the comments, so you definitely need to keep dating - if not this guy another one.

Tesla and PHMH need to also be contributing to these stories.

I have met both of them and they are both very, very attractive.

Their problem is that they are way too old and too slow for a youngster like me.

Shelly, I am happy for you. All you runners are so cool.

Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

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