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User Topic: Celebrating 4 Years Sobriety Today!
looking forward
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Happy  Posted: 7:26 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Four years ago today, I made the decision to change and embrace sobriety, cold turkey!
With much love & support from my husband -- thank you!

[This message edited by looking forward at 10:12 AM, April 27th (Saturday)]


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2839 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! I'm 4 months away from 5 years, God willing. I am proud of you.

[This message edited by HFSSC at 8:08 AM, April 27th (Saturday)]


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2659 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AWESOME!!!!!!!


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24346 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations Lookingforward! Good for you!

I have been watching your journey with much admiration and respect.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 36626 | Registered: Sep 2007
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful....congrats

[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 8:47 AM, April 27th (Saturday)]


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2606 | Registered: Jan 2010
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so proud of every person who accomplishes sobriety. Congratulations!


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1652 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
Jada52
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you! Congrats.


Silly Slut, husbands are for wives - get your own man B*tch!

Posts: 114 | Registered: Apr 2013
Haphazard
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should be so proud of yourself - congratulations!
...having had a mum who just couldnt get sober and eventualy drunk herself to death I know how hard it is

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just re-read your H's poem in your profile.

*sigh: so beautiful*

You are treasured and deservedly so.

Congratulations!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17147 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!

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Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!! Amazing, congratulations!!! Very happy for you :)


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1174 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((looking forward))))

Posts: 1345 | Registered: Sep 2007
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations looking forward!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51506 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
gma56
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Cool  Posted: 8:39 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATS LOOKING FORWARD !!
That is huge !
Smile big and be proud !!
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20323 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! This fantastic news. Keep up the good work.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5829 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! You look wonderful and happy. Happy for you and your husband. woot woot!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 5:39 AM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo!!!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25351 | Registered: Sep 2005
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

..wishing you continued success and determination for reaching your ultimate goals in life.

..The road is long..
with many a winding trail,
that leads us to who knows where..
who knows when.
It's a long, long road....
from which there is no return.

((((lf)))))

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4102 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WTG, looking forward!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15360 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So So very happy for you!!!


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

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