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kernel
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Posted: 7:31 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013

No, I wouldn't date a pastor or anyone that was deeply religious, because I am not. I agree with Sad, I am spiritual but not religious - not in any way that would mesh with established religions. I'm not sure those are differences that can co-exist in a healthy relationship. I would be worried about expectations of changing my beliefs.

[This message edited by kernel at 7:32 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)]

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hurtinky
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Posted: 8:21 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013

I wouldn't. I'm Catholic and I just don't think it would be a good fit.

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purplejacket4
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Posted: 8:30 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013

I'd be as cautious dating a pastor as I would a politician. Both really put you into the limelight and everybody being in your business KWIM?

My father became a preacher and that was the catalyst that killed my parents marriage. My mom is a gigantic introvert and never forgave him for dragging her into that role.

Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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