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abbycadabby
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Sad  Posted: 2:04 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, I'm kind of just over being a grown up today. It's nothing really major, just a few things converged just right to make me feel slightly overwhelmed.

Then, I read a thread on here that caused me to trigger terribly... in a way I haven't triggered in a very long time.

This triggering is not about the A, so I hope this is the right place for it.

Anyone have any hugs to spare?

[This message edited by abbycadabby at 2:08 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)]


Posts: 957 | Registered: Feb 2010
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((abby)))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49764 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((abby)))




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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((HUGS)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day's, listed in profile)


Posts: 5375 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((abbycadabby)))

Totally understand....it's been one thing after another since November in our house, and sunday night we had a visitor at the house that sent me to 7 years ago.

My grandmother and I always had a contest to see who would see the first lighting bug first. When we would see one, we would call the other right away.

I had not seen one yet, but right before we went to bed, a lighting bug was crawling on the brand new living room floor....it was the day before her birthday.

I hate that after 7 years it can still send my heart to shatters....

So totally get you...


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
~Some days are better then others~

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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all.

(((Undefinabl3)))


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Abby)))


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 23974 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((AbbyCadabby))))


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3082 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Update:

Had a pretty good rest of the day yesterday. I appreciate all the thoughts and hugs. You guys are awesome!

Got up this morning and ran into a friend who complimented my hair. We talked for a bit about my wanting to get some highlights put in. She recommended a stylist to me, so I immediately called to make the appt. It is next Wednesday!

I need to do stuff like this sometimes... take care of myself more. Do things to make me feel good. This gets neglected at times. Maybe my next step should be booking a day at the spa?

Anyway, sorry for the randomness.


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Abby)))
I too am tired of being a grown up today.

This has been a rough year for me, and nothing A related. Life just can sometimes suck was too much.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6614 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tushnurse)))

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