This Topic is Archived
tryingagain74 (original poster member #33698) posted at 11:44 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013
If you read my other thread on here (about the bus stop), I emailed STBX about it. He wasn't sure if it was the right thing to do and basically used bad judgment (let DD go down the street and come back alone, crossing a street), and he agreed that it would never happen again.
The other good news is that he was startled to receive notification on our pending legal matter and assured me that he'd be paying full COBRA coverage. He said that his employer previously claimed they wouldn't provide it (who knows if that's true, but whatever), and his attorney said they had to by law. So, keep your fingers crossed-- the D might be final by the end of this month once my L makes sure that all of the Is are dotted and Ts are crossed!
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
RoadtoPeace ( new member #39141) posted at 7:06 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Congratulations trying again. I am heading towards a D very soon and know that when it is final, the next chapter of my life can begin. Wishing you all the best!
me - BS
him - WH
Married 5 1/2 years
Dday#1 - 10/2009
Dday#2 - 3/2013
Status - He wants R, I am not sure I can get on that ride again
dindy ( member #38424) posted at 8:44 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
That's great news I'm happy for you :) It sounds like peace of mind regarding both your DD and your D.
I too had some good news, well more of a realisation through my last IC. I've realised that I no longer want the relationship I was in with XWS and need to feel nurtured and appreciated in a relationship.
Onwards and upwards! :)
RoadtoPeace ( new member #39141) posted at 8:53 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Way to go Dindy! You deserve a nurturing relationship that builds you up instead of tearing you down. I look back at my time with my STBX after the first discovery and it was so stressful to wonder if he was up to it again.
me - BS
him - WH
Married 5 1/2 years
Dday#1 - 10/2009
Dday#2 - 3/2013
Status - He wants R, I am not sure I can get on that ride again
Coraline ( member #36434) posted at 11:50 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
That's fantastic. I hope it all works out quickly!
Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.
This Topic is Archived
