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User Topic: What Time... *a poll*
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you go to bed??

On the weekdays?

On the weekends?


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometime between 11PM and 2AM, depending on how long Mr Silver and/or Lil Silver keep me awake (in other words, however long it takes for the TV to go off). That's indiscriminate of whether weekday or weekend.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

10 PM is my "official" bedtime, on a work night. More often than not, it's much closer to 11, though. Weekends it depends on whether SO is here or not. When he's not here, we tend to chat until later than we do during the week, so I'm usually up until midnight or so.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Weekdays: Usually around 9. (I have to make sure I'm up early enough to get to work before the teachers.) Weekends: Whenever I feel like it. Gosh.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anywhere from 10:30pm-midnight any night of the week.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 19789 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

10pm is the latest I want to go to bed on weekdays and still feel human for work the next day, because I'm an early riser (5:30am). In the winter, especially this never-ending winter, I find myself actually heading to bed by 9pm, and then reading for a bit. On the weekends, I *refuse* to go to bed earlier than 10 just because I don't have to get up early!! Of course, I'm wide awake by 7am at the latest no matter what time I go to bed. I suck at sleeping in.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

12AM-1AM on the weeknights, 2AM-3AM on the weekends, unless I crash out earlier while reading in my chair.

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

10-12 all days of the week. That's in bed with light off but I can read anywhere from 30 minutes to two hours on my iPhone or iPad. Try not to stay awake past 12:30 on weeknight.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm usually in bed by 9:00 on weekdays, except for Wednesdays when I watch Supernatural and Arrow, then I'm in bed around 10:00. Regardless, I'm usually zonked by 10:30. I try not to stay up later than that since I have to get up early (4:45) for work.

On weekends I'm usually up til midnight or so and rarely sleep past 8:00 in the morning.


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WW (me) - 49


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We all go to bed at 9pm on weeknights...

And usually can't stay up past 10 or 11 on the weekends.

Summer vacations we stay up a bit later!


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm physically in bed at around 8:45 each night. Depending on how tired I am I'll fall asleep right away. In a normal night I usually fall asleep around 11 or 12.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I get in bed at 10 and read until I fall asleep, usually by 10:30.

I get up around 5ish every morning.

On the weekends around 11.


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

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misskirby
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Usually to bed around 11 on a weeknight, 12-1 on a weekend. That will probably soon change to an earlier time, since we're moving further away from my husband's job and he'll have to be getting up earlier for the drive!


Me-BS, Late 20's
Him-WH, Late 20's
M 9 years, together 14
DS and DD
D-Day 1/16/12

"Long is the way And hard, that out of Hell leads up to Light" -John Milton, Paradise Lost


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, April 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@ h0peless's reference to Napolean Dynamite.

I'm with SadinAZ, 1030ish up to about midnight.
Depends on how tired I am/ how much I have yet to do/whether my eyes will actually stay open.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On the weekdays? 12:30-1:00
On the weekends? Same
Up at 6:00 usually. I'm just one of those people ...



"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We go to bed at about 8:00 PM weeknights as my husband gets up by 4:45 am for work and I wake up, too.

Now, that doesn't mean we go to sleep right away, but we are in bed. Husband falls asleep no later than about 9:30, sometimes he is asleep at 8:05. I usually stay awake reading or watching tv until after Jon Stewart at 10:30.

Probably about 10:00 on the weekends unless we are out and doing stuff. We still wake up too early on the weekends and can't go back to sleep.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Weekends: Whenever I feel like it. Gosh.

I'm usually in bed around 10. Sleep is a whole different animal and varies greatly.


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Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

By midnight during the week. Used to be 10pm, then I remembered that I'm only 29.

On the weekend... if I'm home, still midnight, if I'm out with friends, I dunno, 2? 3? depends on what we're doing.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you go to bed??

On the weekdays?

On the weekends?


Generally speaking, during the week I try to be in bed no later than 11pm.

On weekends, I go to bed anywhere between 11pm and 2am, depending on what I'm doing or how I'm feeling.


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for typos/clarity.


Posts: 6059 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sleep is a whole different animal and varies greatly.


zzzzzz...'get off my quilt'...zzzzz


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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