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User Topic: Follow up to Going Places Alone
neverbeokay
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Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A few months back I posted about going to a nightclub concert alone and got a lot of great support and feedback.

The show was Monday night and I almost wimped out (it was raining, I was tired, my ex was late to pick up my son wah wah) but I made myself go and I am so glad I did.

I really didn't feel awkward at all, before the show started lots of folks were alone (probably waiting for their friends).

Once the show started I just got lost in the amazing music and it was one of the best performances I have ever seen in my life. I even sent a message on Facebook to the musician that performed thanking him for the fantastic night and he actually answered back. I guess I'm officially a groupie LOL!

I'm so very glad I went and I definitely will do so again!


Posts: 256 | Registered: Sep 2005
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:16 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to push yourself out of your comfort zone. Looking forward to what your next adventure will be.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49767 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!! Good for you, never.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22700 | Registered: Aug 2011
traildad
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've done this too, several times now. I love country music, don't know anyone else that does, so now I go to concerts alone quite often. I have come to enjoy them. I can sit back and listen to the music and relax. Good for you.


Me BH - 33
3 beautiful young children
DDay 12/13/11
Divorced.

Posts: 650 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Michigan
msk99
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!

I was at a Bon Jovi concert last month and beside us was a lady just there on her own. It was great to see her there enjoying the night, I went out of my way to chat a little bit with her, and she mentioned she didn't give a rip she was there by herself, she was there with Jon, lol. I told her you go girl!


BS (Me): 40 STBXWW (Her): 40
M: 15 Years, 2 Awesome Boys
Divorcing.

Five simple rules of happiness:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.


Posts: 710 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Alberta
LeftBehind08
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whooh hooh! And music is a great thing to partake in :)

I found doing stuff alone, putting down the cell, computer, etc..., has allowed for some great reflection and also a way to intake the joy around me.

edited due to spelling
Very proud of you!

[This message edited by LeftBehind08 at 3:53 PM, May 1st (Wednesday)]


Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt

Posts: 68 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington
BrokenSpirit50
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Neverbeokay, congrats for taking that big step, hats off to you...


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 235 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, May 1st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great for you! I am the only one who likes rock out of my 3 sisters and 2 brothers, friends, so...... I have gone on my own.

Listen, we can't sit around and wait for someone to go and enjoy life with us. We have to go out there and grab it!

Yes, getting off of the "box" as I call them, phone, pods, tv, computer is so, so much more fulfilling to me.

Enjoy this time with yourself again soon!!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
neverbeokay
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Default  Posted: 5:24 AM, May 2nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Listen, we can't sit around and wait for someone to go and enjoy life with us. We have to go out there and grab it!

This is so true. Thanks everyone for the encouraging words. This New Beginning stuff can be hard and it's great to have something positive to share. Rock on!


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