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User Topic: Am I just weak?
Mrs Panda
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, May 2nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will answer you directly. I think you need to be stronger. I think you need to respect yourself. Not settle for second best. Accept that your BF is not telling you what you want to hear, and that his actions are not congruent with R. He will let this drag on and so will you, neither of you really happy.

I don't know how you detach. I talk a good game because I see dysfunction and can tell you the right thing to do...but it is 1000x harder when it is your life.

So, hugs. This will play out in due time. If you are not ready to make a change, so be it. But keep figuring out what is your truth, your heart, your character and stay true to that.

Me-41 FWW Him-45BH
M 13years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008 (OM2)
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Confessed to OM 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

Posts: 1992 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The SouthEast
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Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, May 3rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

gently: so the affection will never come back but you may have kids with a man who doesn't show you affection. How well does this bode for your children? unagie, this is not a man to have children with... I'm so sorry... you are a good person.

his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”

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