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User Topic: had the first date post-divorce
cdagal
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, May 3rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been almost three years since DD and going on 1 1/2 years post divorce and I finally went on my first date! It was a completely enjoyable evening with an intelligent gentleman with a great sense of humour (and yes, all the courtesies that come with it - opening doors, walking on the outside of the sidewalk - god, I love chivalry ). We spent 4 1/2 hours at the restaurant talking about anything and everything. It was such a pleasure to be with an interesting, interested man. While we parted with a hug, we are making plans to go out again.
I had doubts that I would ever get to this point after all the hurtful things my Ex said and did, but it is really nice to be appreciated by a man!


M - 25 yrs
DDay - August 5, 2010
Divorced - December 12, 2011
He married the OW 35 days later
"Fall seven times, stand up eight" - Japanese proverb

Posts: 79 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Canada
wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, May 3rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you! Hey, there are some of us nice guys around...

I know you were probably a little nervous going in but it's worth the chance!

WB


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


Posts: 5984 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place
gma56
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, May 3rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are wonderful men out there and happy you found one that showed you not all are like the exes we have.

It's so good to see you are back living life "normally" again !That 's HUGE !
Happy for you hug,
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, May 3rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful! Really happy for you!


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

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I.will.survive
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, May 3rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Good stuff!! Hope the 2nd date is twice as good!!

Posts: 530 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: east coast
cdagal
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Default  Posted: 7:16 AM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Second date was just as enjoyable as the first and the kiss wasn't bad either


M - 25 yrs
DDay - August 5, 2010
Divorced - December 12, 2011
He married the OW 35 days later
"Fall seven times, stand up eight" - Japanese proverb

Posts: 79 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Canada
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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