I found out from BFF number 1 that BFF number 2 is thinking if starting up a hot yoga studio... So I'm a little peeved she hasn't told me but I laugh and send her a text "hey, I wanna hear all about your new business plan ". She says yes ill tell you about it! Then i text hubby and say "guess who's starting a hit yoga studio?" No reply. He gets home and says hey I got your text but I already knew that. She came to the bank and talked to one of my guys about a month ago.
So, he's known about this for a month and has asked me several times if he thought hot yoga was trendy and if I thought it would last, all because he wanted to know if his business should fund one of my BFF's business. And I knew nothing..,
I feel betrayed. I cried. I said its like I'm the last one in one a secret. Two people I love know something I don't know, together .. They both have reasons to keep this from me- she doesn't know if it'll fly, he has to protect his customers confidentiality, although he tells me EVERYTHING! About who is filing bankruptcy, etc.
Two years ago I could have cared less. Now, I feel that he had a secret and he used me for information...
This stuff fucks up thinking. his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12
me (WW/BS): 48
4 kiddos in mid 20's
The conditions we face do not define us. They remind us of who we are and who we want to be.