[This message edited by BrokenT at 4:34 PM, May 4th (Saturday)]
Right now he doesn't need to be good with words, his actions have to show you he is in R. Has anything he's actually done shown you this?
You should not have to be happy with crumbs.
"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."
Are you in MC? That and/or just move on and perhaps he'll get a clue. Actions, not words!!