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User Topic: Basement is flooded. Again. And it won't stop raining!
nowiknow23
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Angry  Posted: 5:03 PM, May 4th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GAH!!!

It flooded a week ago while I was out of town. Got all that cleaned up, ruined stuff carted off to the dump, everything else stowed on high ground, basement scrubbed with bleached - twice - to kill the mildew and stop any mold.

And this morning, it started filling back up with water again due to the overnight rains. Currently 3 inches of water in every corner of the basement. It's less than an inch away from the bottom of the furnace and water heater. It stinks. The sump pump can't keep up.

And? Another downpour just started.

Make it stop. Please?


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-Hayley Williams


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, May 4th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, May 4th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik)))


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, May 4th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


Take up your space (and do it well).

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clba317
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, May 4th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When mine flooded last year, I called our local fire department, and they came and pumped it out for me. It is a volunteer department so I gave the a donation. It that something you could do?


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, May 4th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh!!!!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, May 4th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry. this weather is crazy. We had 2" of snow two days ago.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, May 4th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik)))

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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK)) If you live where I think you live we are gonig through the same thing, although we don't hve water in the basement. Hubby is up in the middle of the night checking on the sump pump...
enough already!


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Nik))


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

I hope that the rain has stopped.


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Posts: 52561 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rain stopped overnight. The water level is slowly dropping and leaving behind some lovely filthy muck on every surface.

Thanks for the support. I'll stop whining now.


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welcome14
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mine flooded last Sunday. Rained all night and day yesterday, I'm afraid to look. Good news is, I replaced the berber carpet with tile, so just sucked it up with the shop vac, it didn't get to the areas with furniture except the legs of the couches. Luckily, I have concrete block walls with cedar panelling that we sealed with kilz, so no mold for me. Hate, hate, hate this weather....and even though the walls are sealed, it came in over the top of the wall....so no fixing that without retrenching around the foundation to the tune of ten grand or more....ugh. good luck to you today! and praying for the rain to stop for you....


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Posts: 1218 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Um, are we ready for that sage aura cleanse mabobber now?

(((NIK)))


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Um, are we ready for that sage aura cleanse mabobber now?
Yup. My sister is ON it.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Basement completely drained, power washed, and bleached. Unfortunately, I've got this down to a science.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a bad thing when the water in the sump pump hole is steaming hot, right?

RIP pump. *sigh*


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))


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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))


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