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User Topic: Angry at husband and sister - vent
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I completely understand.

I've told him this on several occasions, but...


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Simply,
I remember when wh was in his A, (3 yr long A)he never had time for our son. So you know what?
I was the one who would threw the football to him (yes I can spirl a football and far, my daddy taught that). I would try to play basketball with him (not good at it) and I would shoot the BB gun with him at a can. I became both mom and dad at the time.
Sometimes, you as a mom just need to say "you know what baby, let go, I will play with you". All they want is someone to play with when friends are not around or willing in your case. And you know what else? I would do it in front of your wh the next time he say's No or if he doesn't want to be bothered.

Your wh is going to have to change if he EVER wants to have a good relationship with his only son. Hopefully he will. I just want to wrap my arms around your son and hold him and tell him I love him... Gosh my heart is breaking for your little man.

Can I punch your wh in the throat to get his attention.

We are always here for you to vent about his. Lots of us have gone through this. And what I fear is that you will snap one day or your son will.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Faithful,
I do that, but sometimes I just need some "me" time. I never leave the condo by myself and because of their fighting I always make sure that I'm around for my kids.

I do feel like I'm play both the "mom" and "dad" roles. When my son was in T-ball I went and bought him his athletic supporter, otherwise he wouldn't have been allowed to play the catcher position. I don't know how to by those things! To this day I don't know if it's the right kind/size/fit. I can handle ballet and tap shoes But I did it. My husband never offered to pick it up, never asked if needed help, nothing. He never said a word.

That's the thing. He won't change. He says he's a stronger version of himself. He likes this "new and improved" him.

I wish you could meet him IRL. He's such a love and a character. He bends over backwards to help me and his grandmother (my mother) and he's even wanted to go around to our neighbors and offer to clean their condos to bring in extra money. Does that sound like a kid that doesn't listen?

Ugh, I'm going to cry now. He doesn't deserve any of this.

Right about now, I have no objection to your offer


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Faithful I'll hold him for ya.


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


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