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TXwifemom (original poster member #37945) posted at 10:57 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
He cheated because (as another SI member said), he hated himself more than he loved me. I reconcile because I love my kids more than I hate him.
TXwifemom (original poster member #37945) posted at 11:04 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
And surprisingly, I'm remembering that somewhere deep, I love him......
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 11:04 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
(((TXwifemom)))
You get to do what makes you most comfortable. Hopefully you can get to a space outside of hate someday...
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
RightTrack ( member #36976) posted at 1:10 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013
I echo your sentiments TXwifemom. I'm waiting for it all just to be water under the bridge.
La Traviata ( member #14941) posted at 1:53 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013
I hear you on hating himself more than he loves me.
We just have cats, though- so I'm going to have to find my own reasons for R... :-)
take care of you
me: BW 31
him: WH, 29
DDay: 4/16/12
RelapseDay:4/15/13
A year of false R. I grew and worked, he didn't. He took off his wedding ring during an alcoholic relapse, I packed and left the next day. I went back 8 weeks later, working hard
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