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User Topic: Some more encouragement needed please
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, May 9th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've read all of your BH's posts; its obvious he's in deep shock and utter disbelief. Its also obvious he well nigh worshipped you; probably placed you on a pedestal, considerably above himself. This makes the feeling of betrayal much more intense.

As usual he seems preoccupied with why?
The type of adultery didn't involve any emotional content and he is wondering why you lost all respect for him and your marriage. Until you can assuage his misery with a concrete reason why, I think he will continue with these unacceptable outbursts. As usual time will heal.

Posts: 1748 | Registered: May 2007 | From: NC
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, May 9th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope he's getting good advice to help him.

He always has had me on a pedestal and for no good reason. Before I got with him I told him I'd let him down. He couldn't see it though, but he sees it now that's for sure.

I doubt I'll ever know why that was the particular escapism I chose and that's what worries me. I'm banking on time and I know I'm coming along in my own way. I can see that when I look back at my first posts here.

I just need to help him more and find out more ways to help him.

I need to stop messing up

Me: WW 27
Him: BH 28
M: 5 years, together 8
3 kids (aged 3, 4 & a baby born 5 Sept 2013)
3 ONSs in 2 weeks
DDay: 20 Jan 2013 (a week after)

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