WH didn't even notice. A friend of ours pointed out that I was not wearing it and I explained that I didn't feel married any more. The ring was a symbol,of our wedding vows which of course were broken.
WH never wore his wedding ring. I don't know if he even knows where it is.
He has never asked me about my ring.
Still don't feel married.
All last year I consciously kept my ring on- I never once took it off.
Since I left him last month I've had a horrible eczema flare on both hands, and the ring was making it worse by trapping moisture between my fingers. So I took it off. I'm strangely okay with it. I'll probably put it on when I go out with my roommate just as a "stop sign" but I'm quite comfortable not wearing it.
Really, really on the fence about this R business.
A year of false R. I grew and worked, he didn't. He took off his wedding ring during an alcoholic relapse, I packed and left the next day. I went back 8 weeks later, working hard
I really didn't do it for her but for me
This here is the perfect reason for putting it back on imho
I've dropped hints that it might be nice to get new rings and renew vows at some point
Do I have you confused with another poster, or did you already renew your vows a few months ago?
The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Yes, he made the rings meaningless. yes, my stomach turns when I think of him placing them on my finger 10 years ago (as she stood there 2 feet from me and held my flowers). But until I make it clear that I am taking them off for good I will honor my decision.