Topic: Missing the ease of times past.
Member # 38044
| Posted: 6:25 PM, May 9th (Thursday), 2013|
Today as I left work I remembered how our M felt to us 3 years ago (past 2 years have been a bit off balance as we experienced the loss of a loved one..and the introduction of the A into our marriage has both my wife and I questioning what our pre-A M really and truly looked like).
I would call just as I left work and asked if I needed to pick up anything on the way home...
I guess this is just like everything else that you loose (health, wealth, etc.)...you have to lose it before you realize what you truly had.
Not much of a post...just a melancholy mood I guess.
God be with us all.
[This message edited by blakesteele at 6:26 PM, May 9th (Thursday)]
ME: 42 BH
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
NC: Broken early November 2012 by 1 email to OM...OM did NOT respond.
2 girls; 6 and 9
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred...may never incur.
Posts: 1596 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
Member # 23875
| Posted: 7:04 PM, May 9th (Thursday), 2013|
I understand your feelings of loss. It does get a little better with time.
"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it."
Together 33 years
6-5-06 Day of Reckoning
"The acquired inability to escape"
Posts: 1045 | Registered: May 2009 | From: swfl
Member # 31528
| Posted: 8:28 AM, May 10th (Friday), 2013|
There are still good times to be had.
Were together 7+yrs, Ended R.
Posts: 26466 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 21101
| Posted: 8:35 AM, May 10th (Friday), 2013|
((( Blake )))
Through true R, you will regain a real sense of normalcy.
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy
Posts: 5078 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Member # 35812
| Posted: 3:12 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013|
(((hugs))) It will get better for you, I promise. Which is, I know, small consolution when it's so sucky now.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 2956 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 26970
| Posted: 4:58 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013|
...you have to lose it before you realize what you truly had.
^^^^^^^^^^^^ this is so true.
sorry you are feeling crappy.
trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Married 41 yrs (together 46)
18 yr LTA with bf
Posts: 3689 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
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