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Topic: Being distant
Member # 19946
Posted: 11:30 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013
Can you take a break from projects and let him take you on a relaxing date?
BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.
Posts: 5871 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
Member # 12050
Posted: 4:15 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013
As a plumber I would say paint first. You may have to touch up a little but at least you won't have to pain behind the fixtures after they are installed. Also it will give you something concrete to do to move ahead in getting the bathroom done. It is a very hard adjustment moving in with somebody but give it time.
Posts: 2718 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: newfoundland
Member # 32616
Posted: 11:33 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013
So many items checked off this weekend! My sister is doing better and now looking for a new roommate. I finished painting, and he is installing the sink today
He also fixed up the whole front yard with pavers and rocks cause I bought some awesome new patio furniture. So two projects done! The place is finally getting presentable and functional and it is such a relief. My grinch heart is growing
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Posts: 3465 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Member # 32810
Posted: 11:57 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013
Great update! Glad to hear.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
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