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Default  Posted: 11:30 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you take a break from projects and let him take you on a relaxing date?

BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As a plumber I would say paint first. You may have to touch up a little but at least you won't have to pain behind the fixtures after they are installed. Also it will give you something concrete to do to move ahead in getting the bathroom done. It is a very hard adjustment moving in with somebody but give it time.


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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So many items checked off this weekend! My sister is doing better and now looking for a new roommate. I finished painting, and he is installing the sink today He also fixed up the whole front yard with pavers and rocks cause I bought some awesome new patio furniture. So two projects done! The place is finally getting presentable and functional and it is such a relief. My grinch heart is growing

Posts: 3445 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great update! Glad to hear.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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