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User Topic: What's your favorite Sad Love Song?
libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will admit, sometimes, I make myself a little more sadder to music. Although I hate to do it, crying always makes me feel better. Haven't cried in a while...

I used to have a playlist called "runny mascara" on my ipod. Then realized I hadn't played it in a while.
Here's some of the songs:

Wish you were here by Pink Floyd.
Let down by Radiohead.
Love is a losing game by Amy Winehouse.
Wake up alone by Amy Winehouse.
Stepping Stone by Duffy.
Video of When you were young by the killers.(Always makes me cry when I watch it)

What are your sad songs?

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 2:32 PM, May 10th (Friday)]


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Recently it's been Pink's "Give Me A Reason".


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Neithan
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Eye in the sky" by Alan Parsons tops my current list.

Don't think sorry's easily said
Don't try turning tables instead
You've taken lots of chances before
But I'm not gonna give anymore
Don't ask me
That's how it goes
Cause part of me knows what you're thinkin

[This message edited by Neithan at 4:54 PM, May 10th (Friday)]


Me: BH
Her: WW
D-Day: 2/19/2010
Married 1981
That which does not kill me makes me more irritable

Posts: 320 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Among the Gaurwaith
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lately it's been "Eye" by Smashing Pumpkins. Before that, "Another Sad Love Song" by Toni Braxton, also "Angel From Montgomery" (the version with Bonnie Raitt sings with John Prine). Surely there are more... been trying to listen to music that's not about love or relationships or sex... It helps get my head in a different place.

[This message edited by silverhopes at 4:36 PM, May 10th (Friday)]


Find peace. Or sleep on it.

Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.


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freelancer
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't make you love me by Bonnie Raitt!


Me: BS, 34
Him: WH, 34
2 beautiful babies, 6 and 3, HB baby due 06/2014
DD1: 7/1/2012
OW#1: EA/PA for 14 months
OW#2: PA for 1.5 months
DD2: 9/17/2013 Back at it with OW#1 for 4 weeks.

Posts: 238 | Registered: Aug 2012
HereWeGo62
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Remember When" by Alan Jackson


If there is reincarnation I hope OM comes back as a low water flush truck stop toilet!

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clralb
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ooh, "Wish You Were Here" is a great one.

This isn't really sad, but it kind of made me chuckle at the time.

"One is the Loneliest Number" by Three Dog Night.

I heard it on the radio shortly after our separation. I was alone in the car and the song came on, and I said out loud, "Shut up, Three Dog Night," and changed the station.


BS Divorced.

They were right about you.


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Sue1964
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will always love u.

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crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rhianna's 'Stay'


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
0115
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Come on get higher...Matt Nathanson


BS (me) 49
FWH 49 newbeg2011
Married 29 years
Very Long LTA
DD 01/15/11-6/30/11
The hard work is done...let the healing begin.

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Lostinthismess
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

'You lost me' Christina Aguilera. The 'you couldn't keep your hands to yourself' gets me every time.


Dday- 4/4/13
fwh- harrypotter
'You just keep living, until you are alive again'
'I don't want perfect, I want honest'

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Uneek
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Default  Posted: 1:47 AM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wish You Were Here is the ringtone when H calls me.

Just Give Me a Reason is my big song right now. Also high on my list is You Were Mine by the Dixie Chicks.

Not a love song, but Wayman's Song/Crying for Me by Toby Keith and The House That Built Me by Miranda Lambert get me every time.


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HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 1:47 AM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Life Will Go On by Chris Isaak
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZJe_BAcpEE


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


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Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know if these are sad, but I love adam lamberts what do you want from me (or whatever the name is... I only hear it on the radio)

I also like one direction all the right moves. I don't think it means what I thought it did, but when we were divorcing, the song went, "Everyone knows we're going down" and that was sort of my internal theme song LOL =)


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Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ohhhh.... lady gagas bad romance is also a favorite. not really sad, but I always think of wh and our very own bad romance!

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Alex CR
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have to add another vote for Remember When by Alan Jackson


BS Me 61
WS Him 62
Married 33
Together 40
DD 11/16/09
The future looks good....

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idiot85
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, May 11th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love her madly- the doors
Most Maximo Park or Glasvegas songs
Better do better- Hard-Fi

I have The Imperial March (Darth Vader's theme) for when the Mrs rings me...

Oh and Maybe by Emili Sande and Suitcase by her as well

[This message edited by idiot85 at 7:54 PM, May 11th (Saturday)]


BH-29 (me)
WW-28

Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.


Posts: 575 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Old Blighty
ssi0318
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay - Rihanna
I won't give up - Jason Mraz


Me-BS
Her-WW - probable NPD
M 11 years, T 14 years
3 kids, all under 11
DDday #2 04/18/2014
DDay #1 3/18/13
I'm not happy - Nov-12

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There grew a little flower 'neath a great oak tree.
When the tempest 'gan to lower, little heeded she.
...
Sing Hey, lack-a-day
Sing Hey, lack-a-day
Sing Hey, lack-a-day, Let the tears fall free
For the pretty little flower and her great oak tree.

The song is from Gilbert & Sullivan's Ruddigore, and it brought tears to my eyes before the A. I can't even type the words without tears.

Hoping to help me feel better and not knowing the lyrics, shortly after D-Day my W asked me where the record was so she could play one of my favorite songs. I explained it wasn't a good choice, given where we were.

[This message edited by sisoon at 1:04 PM, May 12th (Sunday)]


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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guarded
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, May 16th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Reba McIntre: Every Other Weekend and also, Consider me Gone, from the same album.


In R? But how do you know it isn't another pack of lies?

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