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User Topic: I lost my Mom today
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2713 | Registered: Jan 2010
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry for your loss. ((((hugs))))


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
HeavyE
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My deepest sympathy. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.


You can't change the wind, but you can adjust your sails.

Me Tarzan
Her Jane

Reconciled
D-Day 4/14/08


Posts: 9561 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Birthplace of America's Music
WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry.


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this.

Sending (((hugs))) and strength to you and your family


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 44980 | Registered: Sep 2006
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7824 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, everyone. I don't think it has completely sunk in yet. I now have no parents alive. Being a grown up sucks.


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2482 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
Take2
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Too_Trusting)) I'm so sorry, its hard no matter how expected...


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4135 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I am so sorry :( That is very sad to hear.


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1284 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

..very sad to hear this on your Mom's special day.

..when i was 12, i drowned in a HS swimming pool..and just before i lost consciousness and sank to the bottom, i called out "I love you Mom" !!

..Moms hold that 'special' place in our hearts. I'm sure yours did too.

..on that day, the lifeguard was also very special.

..prayers sent to you and family.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

((((((Too_Trusting))))))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


Posts: 1793 | Registered: Feb 2009
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. (((((too trusting))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5280 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry for your loss.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2787 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
LeftBehind08
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am very sorry.

(((Too_Trusting)))


Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt

Posts: 83 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington
iamasurvivor
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Too_Trusting))

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


I will come out stronger!

Posts: 254 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: iowa
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Too_Trusting

(((hugs)))


Posts: 500 | Registered: Jun 2012
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Too Trusting--I'm so very sorry for your loss.


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2127 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
hitbyatruck
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Too-trusting)))


Married 1998, 2 kids
D-day3/27/09,he left 5/23/09
WH wants to rebuild 3/21/10
He moved back in 9/25/10,
Dec, 2011-finally putting it all together, H had multiple affairs.
Possible porn addict for 15 yrs.
01/2014- in house separation

Posts: 3280 | Registered: Apr 2009
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.

((((Hugs))))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


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