Topic: I lost my Mom today
Member # 27148
| Posted: 3:38 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I am so sorry
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 2232 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 36711
| Posted: 3:45 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm sorry for your loss. ((((hugs))))
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
Posts: 1194 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Member # 19333
| Posted: 4:43 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
My deepest sympathy. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
You can't change the wind, but you can adjust your sails.
Posts: 9561 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Birthplace of America's Music
Member # 12475
| Posted: 4:50 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I am so sorry.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
Member # 25001
| Posted: 6:03 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this.
Sending (((hugs))) and strength to you and your family
Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Him - (Doesn't matter)
D-Day June 12th 2008, D-Day #2 Sept 28th
D-Day #3 Feb 15th & 16th 2010, D-Day #4 Nov 29th 2010
Posts: 5086 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Member # 12041
| Posted: 6:08 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so sorry for your loss
“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin
Posts: 42266 | Registered: Sep 2006
Member # 18522
| Posted: 6:08 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you.
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 7504 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Member # 99
| Posted: 6:55 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
Thanks, everyone. I don't think it has completely sunk in yet. I now have no parents alive. Being a grown up sucks.
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
Posts: 2358 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
Member # 23890
| Posted: 7:06 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
((Too_Trusting)) I'm so sorry, its hard no matter how expected...
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
Posts: 4054 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Member # 30727
| Posted: 7:07 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
Oh, I am so sorry :( That is very sad to hear.
"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."
Posts: 1080 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
Member # 26970
| Posted: 7:19 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
..very sad to hear this on your Mom's special day.
..when i was 12, i drowned in a HS swimming pool..and just before i lost consciousness and sank to the bottom, i called out "I love you Mom" !!
..Moms hold that 'special' place in our hearts. I'm sure yours did too.
..on that day, the lifeguard was also very special.
..prayers sent to you and family.
trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Married 41 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf
Posts: 3930 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
Member # 22800
| Posted: 7:27 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years
Posts: 1777 | Registered: Feb 2009
Member # 36134
| Posted: 7:29 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I am so sorry. (((((too trusting))))
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 3764 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 33338
| Posted: 8:06 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Him, 39 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 2395 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Member # 38705
| Posted: 8:14 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I am very sorry.
Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt
Posts: 68 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington
Member # 29728
| Posted: 8:47 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I will come out stronger!
Posts: 248 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: iowa
Member # 35912
| Posted: 9:22 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
Posts: 393 | Registered: Jun 2012
Member # 10798
| Posted: 9:26 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
Too Trusting--I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James
Posts: 2048 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
Member # 23769
| Posted: 9:33 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
Married 1998, 2 kids
D-day3/27/09,he left 5/23/09
WH wants to rebuild 3/21/10
He moved back in 9/25/10,
Dec, 2011-finally putting it all together, H had multiple affairs.
Possible porn addict for 15 yrs.
01/2014- in house separation
Posts: 3252 | Registered: Apr 2009
Member # 16590
| Posted: 10:01 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert
Posts: 3153 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
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