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User Topic: Note to fWS
hopefulmother
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't fall in love with you for money. (your not wealthy)
I didn't fall in love with you because you would one day cure cancer. (you were a manager at Taco Bell)
I didn't fall in love with you because you were a handyman. (you tried to put the car battery in backwards)
I didn't fall in love with you because you took me places and bought me things. (hard to do since I am not that type of women)
I didn't fall in love with you because you spent your time building me up (I am too self-confident for that grade-school shit)
I didn't fall in love with you because you took care of me and followed me around and payed all your attention and time to me. (I didn't marry my parents or a fan club and if I wanted that I would have gotten a dog)

I fell in love with you because you were trust-worthy.
I fell in love with you because you were honorable.
I fell in love with you because you respected me.
I fell in love with you because you supported my career moves.
I fell in love with you because you had high moral values.
I fell in love with you because you made me laugh.
I fell in love with you because you were a nerd.
I fell in love with you because you weren't embarrassed to play D&D.
I fell in love with you because you were interesting.
I fell in love with you because we could read together in the same room.
I fell in love with you because you let me be independent.
I fell in love with you because I believed in you and felt you were worth being with for the rest of my life.
I fell in love with you because you spoke your mind.

I valued you so much more than you would ever know. I chose you to marry out of everyone else out there. I never wanted children, but what we shared made me want to have a family with you.

I hope to find all those things in you again. I will not give up. It is just hard when the important things (trust, respect, and honor) are gone. Given to another women for what? Nothing? It/She was not worth it you say.

I love you for fighting for me now. I know so much was lost. I have hope that I will fall in love with you again.


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends for 20yrs dating since 2000
Married 9yrs with 2 toddlers
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

Posts: 923 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: East Coast
musiclovingmom
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Member # 38207
Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

With very few exceptions, I could have written this note to my H. In fact, I copied it to him (he's working out of town right now) and it's the basis for our discussion tonight. Thanks for sharing.

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