Topic: Gone Girl
Member # 10310
| Posted: 11:15 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013|
I just finished reading and I can help to feel super disappointmented Most of the characters were plain broken people so I'm inclined to think I never connected with any of them.
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Posts: 3121 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
Member # 10552
| Posted: 1:35 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013|
I liked it in that it was a good, psychological thriller/story and I was always racing ahead to find out what happened next but yeah... I have to say I didn't like any of the main characters much at all. It was hard to root for any of them.
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Posts: 15037 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
Member # 10798
| Posted: 11:54 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013|
Count me in. I raced through and felt really angry at all of the characters in the end.
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Posts: 1998 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
Member # 39000
| Posted: 6:48 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013|
It was, at least, unique.
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Posts: 478 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
Member # 99
| Posted: 5:39 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013|
I hated both of the characters too, but OMG - I could NOT put that book down.
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Posts: 2329 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
Member # 39169
| Posted: 4:00 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013|
It was right after reading this my WH signed up for his secret life on AFF. I can't help but feel like the book factored in his intrigue with a secret life.
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Posts: 383 | Registered: May 2013
Member # 12008
| Posted: 7:49 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013|
I remember reading it and wondering what all the hype was. Figured it was the overdone story of some guy who offs his wife to clear his path for other women. Whatever.
I couldn't put it down because I was waiting for him to get caught. And I was happily surprised by the ending in that I thought the characters deserved each other.
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Posts: 428 | Registered: Sep 2006
Member # 32785
| Posted: 3:41 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013|
I liked Amy allot until mid way through then ended up disliking both of them but I found a fair bit of what she said to be true too..
I don't think you always have to identity with a character, these were two very broken and utterly dislikable people. I've just finished the book and its the first time in awhile that a book has made me really think about my feelings about the characters I was reading about. I'm excited to read her other novels!
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Posts: 358 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Australia
Member # 15859
| Posted: 10:46 AM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013|
I have just finished reading Gone Girl and had to come here to read what others thought.
Some parts of it triggered me, and my Dday was 7 years ago.
I did wonder several time sif the author has been a member here, it seemed to me that she may have experienced infidelity at some point.
As for the book, I think the author started out with a good storyline which she spoiled by making Amy psychopath.
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Posts: 26022 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: Seattle
Member # 25560
| Posted: 1:19 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
Unique, to be sure. That was the best part about it... totally unlikeable characters.
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Posts: 2310 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
Member # 6687
| Posted: 1:56 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
I actually loved that the two main characters were so awful and unlikeable. I thought it was a unique way to handle the book. The husband! Omg, how icky he was! And the wife! Once I gave up trying to relate to either of them and just sat back and watched the trainwreck unfold it was a great story.
Posts: 3027 | Registered: Mar 2005
Member # 33129
| Posted: 9:05 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013|
I agree- it's rare that I hate both main characters in a book! I loved that they got what they deserved in the end- each other!
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Posts: 2933 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 325
| Posted: 1:46 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013|
I hated it, but I'm now reading "The Silent Wife," which is very similar but, imho, a much better book--maybe because both husband and wife are very "normal" to me, compared to the "Gone Girl" characters.
Posts: 5512 | Registered: Jul 2002
Member # 40761
| Posted: 5:11 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013|
Agree with so many. Loved the story, hated the characters, and ended up liking the fact that the characters were so unlikeable. The analogy of watching a train wreck unfold... spot on.
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