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User Topic: Isolating experience
Tripletrouble
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Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So my WH was on AFF sexting with countless local women. The humiliation is so burning that I look at the ground when I'm in public because I feel like the whole world knows and is laughing at what an idiot I am- first for not knowing, then for trying to R. Logically it seems ridiculous but it's what I feel. And I can't even tell anyone what I'm going through because I would never violate the privacy of my teenagers like that. So thank god for this board and all the posters, you have kept me sane.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
PurpleBirch
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Member # 39170
Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know how you feel. My WH got his military posting today. He (and everyone he told) is glad he's staying in the same town because I have a job here. What he doesn't realize is that I wasn't planning on fucking up my career by joining his lying piece o shit ass.

I haven't posted too much, but I like knowing I can say stuff like that ^^ and no one will judge me.


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
Tripletrouble
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Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow Purple we are back to back member #'s and my d day was 4/22. Sorry to share such an unfortunate bond with you.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
Hearthache again
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Member # 28564
Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have nothing to feel ashamed about. You did nothing wrong but trust the person you are in a relationship with.

I also felt this way. I always felt like people were judging me for my H actions. You get over it after a while.

I would recommend IC since you have not support outside of this board. This place is a awesome but sometimes we need one on one contact to get us through the rough times.


Me-BS(32)
Him-WS(35)
Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
I edit a lot because that stupid box is so small!


Posts: 871 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Michigan
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