Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
Find a Local Couselor
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: totalshock46 (44575)

Divorce/Separation Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: Discovery question
dreamlife
♀ Member
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have not received a Discovery Q. but my atty has sent it off to STBX last week. He has a month to respond.

Is it possible that there won't be any Discovery Q. sent to me?

Anyone else go through this?
Thanks.


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25398 | Registered: Sep 2005
Nature_Girl
♀ Member
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No discovery was asked of me. No questions, nothing like that. I offered up all financials early on in the process and again here at the end. We STILL have not received all of STBX's financials, and we've already had our divorce trial!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9458 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
dreamlife
♀ Member
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG ~ this is unbelievable!
He was hiding everything...& he continues to in different ways.
My gut is screaming b/c I just know this NPD is going to pull something tricky & BAD.

***I Know This***


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25398 | Registered: Sep 2005
Nature_Girl
♀ Member
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, mine hid a lot of stuff, too. If you have the money for a forensic accountant, go for it. Assuming you think he's hiding anything financially. Mine was hiding lots of stuff, he still is. I found lots of hidden things on my own. If I had a forensic accountant I bet there would be a ton more to discover.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9458 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Ashland13
♀ Member
Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, that's happening here, too. It was a trick just to figure out where to serv Perv and now they are dillydallying over the financial stuff.

I did what I could ahead of time and that way it's as done as I can get it and also looks really good to be organized.

No, I haven't been asked for discovery questions either, but we're just starting out.

STBXH and his L are calling this "mutual" and suddenly the "we" word is popping out, so I did put my foot down and said, "this is not a WE thing. I wanted M." Of course no reply came, but all during M, it was "Mine and yours", down to the paper towels. Any ideas on this or is it just words that don't need to be dissected?

And, good luck, everybody.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2187 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
Jayne Doe
♀ Member
Member # 32664
Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was going thru money like water!

They were just too stupid to know that this was ALL going to come out in the end.

You will only get a discovery if his attorney requests it, and since he just had to tell all of his secrets - I bet you have one on the way, if for nothing else than payback.


Everyday is a blank canvas, and only you hold the brush.
30y M traded in for a POM (pathetic Old Maid 46, 2 kids from different dads. never married)
S 11/11, D final 1/14.

Posts: 1454 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Suburbia, Arizona
Dawn58
♀ Member
Member # 37656
Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just finished filling out my discovery. The lying, cheating pig had to hire a forensic accountant since he kept all the financials away from me. Of course, the forensic accountant is asking him to clarify the questions he has on the financials and I don't believe that the lying pig will be honest with him, so I may ask my attorney's to subpoena all third parties involved to get the information. I do not trust him.


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 467 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
dreamlife
♀ Member
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 12:53 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My atty said Discovery is very expensive.
I never worked during our M and never hid anything.
I think STBX is too cheap to pay more for any "Discovery".


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25398 | Registered: Sep 2005
woundedby2
♀ Member
Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 1:04 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I bet you have one on the way, if for nothing else than payback.

^^^this

Exactly what happened to me. It is a lot of work, and it is very expensive. I hope you don't get hit with a ridiculous discovery request.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7790 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Topic Posts: 9

Return to Forum: Divorce/Separation Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.