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User Topic: My Father died yesterday
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry.


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3816 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Faithful w/Love
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Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im so sorry. Prayers to your family and you.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2676 | Registered: Aug 2011
Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dameia)))

Posts: 2485 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.

(((Hugs)))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3236 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dameia and family)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10106 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
bbee
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dameia))) I'm very sorry for your loss.


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6655 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss. Mother's Day is on different dates, but will always be a reminder; a sad reminder. My Mother passed just before my bday and I spent my bday greeting people at her wake. Those who knew, wished me a somber "try to have a happy birthday anyway ". Every bday now, that's on my mind at times. (((Hugs)))


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2332 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((dameia))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4172 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Happydays
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry for your loss. My condolences.


BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Mar 2013
click4it
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very sorry for your loss. Huge warm hugs headed your way. (((((((dameia))))))))


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25561 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for your father and your family.


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17375 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
sad12008
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dameia))) I'm so sorry, I know losing a parent leaves such a void. Sounds like the kind of man who made a great dad. You're in my thoughts.


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

Posts: 3876 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.

(((((dameia and family)))))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15396 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Dameia)))

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24514 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
scarredforever
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Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for your loss.


"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it."

Mark Twain

Me-BS 52
Him-WS 53
Together 33 years

6-5-06 Day of Reckoning

"The acquired inability to escape"


Posts: 1058 | Registered: May 2009 | From: swfl
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart aches for you. I lost my Mom on Mother's Day this year, so I know how painful it is.

(((((HUGS))))


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2469 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
Lucky
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry for your loss.


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


Posts: 36162 | Registered: Apr 2005
dameia
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone for the kind words, hugs, and prayers. I really appreciate the support.


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


Posts: 1139 | Registered: Jul 2012
Skan
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4809 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((D)))))

Sorry for your loss. I'm glad you had a good Dad.


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5826 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
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