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User Topic: Positive Moments
Undone1
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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In MC I told my H that he would need to help me recover from all the business travel he did with the OW. I struggle with hotel rooms, cities they went to, etc.

He apparently heard me and over the weekend told me that he had planned a romantic get-a-way for the two of us to New Orleans. He planned everything around my interests! We are staying in a Bed and Breakfast, have a Cajun cooking class together, a bike trip to cemeteries, multiple restaurants, and more. For the first time I am excited about the future and looking forward.

It has been a LONG 6 months and I am feeling positive about recovery and reconciliation.


Undone1
Married 10+ years to my high school sweetheart
DDAY 10/27/12
Me 55
WH 55
Blended Family: 25, 21, and 20
Married 10 years
"The Universe Unfolds as it Should"

Posts: 301 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Missouri
h0pe4ul
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you, Undone! and Kudos to your H for "hearing" you and doing something about what he heard.

This is what R is all about!!!

I pray that you both have a wonderful time during your getaway and that you will bond even more than ever.

May your healing process together be one that is united and complete. May you both become so united that no one will ever be able to come between the two you of ever again.

This is my prayer for you and your H!


Posts: 161 | Registered: Feb 2013
Undone1
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope,

Thanks so much!!! Appreciate the prayer. It's all so hard. Who would have thought that we would all end up here.


Undone1
Married 10+ years to my high school sweetheart
DDAY 10/27/12
Me 55
WH 55
Blended Family: 25, 21, and 20
Married 10 years
"The Universe Unfolds as it Should"

Posts: 301 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Missouri
h0pe4ul
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Member # 38446
Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, even in the best of circumstances, things can be quite tough when recovering from betrayal.

You and your H sound like you are both putting the work in though.

Be easy on yourself. It's going to take a good while before your emotions catch up to what you see and is really going on in your life now.

It sounds like you are still working through many things regarding the A and other OW but it is also good your H is trying to help w/your healing process as much as he can.

One day at a time.....that is the best gift you can give you right now...and it's OK to not be 100% in the midst of your process now.

The time will come when you will be. :).

For now, it seems like you are heading in the right direction.


Posts: 161 | Registered: Feb 2013
cheerless
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy for you Undone1!


♪I'm not fine; I'm in pain
It's harder every day ~ Maroon 5♫

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8yr EA&PA w/MCOW emp/frmr emp
19y M * 25y T, 2 teens
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Posts: 273 | Registered: Jan 2013
libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I'm so happy for you! Yes, to the good memories you will make. I'm all about new memories! I don't care about OW anymore.

I'm 5 months out.

Have fun and enjoy yourselves.


Me-BW 35. STBXH-35,active alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 little boys. M 6yrs T13.
Year+ false R & TT from Dday1 Nov 2012 IEA - Feb 2014 count at 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) for 3 years that I know of.
Filed for D.

Posts: 816 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
Undone1
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LibertyRocks: It is awesome that you have gotten rid of the OW. I hope to be there in the future!


Undone1
Married 10+ years to my high school sweetheart
DDAY 10/27/12
Me 55
WH 55
Blended Family: 25, 21, and 20
Married 10 years
"The Universe Unfolds as it Should"

Posts: 301 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Missouri
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