I am only a little bit ahead in the process and I can hardly function when any activity has to happen. I could hardly drive to get ther or get myself ready.
It becomes a feeling of automatic pilot, doesn't it?
I wish you well and hope the periods of peace in your mind will begin to grow at some point.
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
Hang in there, żou'll survive this, you are stronger than you think. You are doing the right thing for YOU.
Being alone, is better than being with someone and feeling lonely, and that's what would feel if you stayed with him and his mind and heart would be elsewhere. Right?
You are still young, there's still a life out there for you. It's different, but who knows what awaits you?
Keep busy, and take care of yourself. We are here to listen, because we understand.
1 year ago, this time, I was a mess.. I still have my down moments, and I still miss the man before the affair. But not this lying, cheating, and selfish person.
We have to continue to have hope for an even better future.
"The Secret of Change is to focus all your energy - not on fighting the old, but on building the new" ~~Lori Greiner FB post~~
To this day (in the middle of it all) I still get that sick feeling whenever there is an email from the attorney's office.
It just SUCKS!!! But - at this point I just want to get to the other side.
Here's to getting to the other side of this Susan!! (((hugs))) Know you are not alone.
[This message edited by Jayne Doe at 9:14 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)]