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User Topic: Good Grief
childofcheater
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Document all contact and file a harassment report with the police.


Me: 36 yo, him 35
Married 14 years together 18
3 kids: DD9, DD7, DS4
DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworker
Status: in R, work in progress

Posts: 296 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: East Coast
hopefulmother
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Member # 38790
Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree with Childofcheater.

So angry...went back and read all his posts about the weekend before training. How sorry he was...blah blah blah.

Never noticed how focused he is on himself. How did that weekend go?


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends for 20yrs dating since 2000
Married 9yrs with 2 toddlers
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

Posts: 933 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

who is paying for his training at the Academy? if it is a city or municipality I cannot believe they would be too happy helping fund his adulteress lifestyle. for that matter from what I remember of police academies, they have a code of ethics. that behavior would get most students kicked out.

talk to your attorney first.

just sayin


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2842 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
cdnmommy
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Member # 30182
Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow.

I should be shocked but I am not surprised at the quality of OW he chose given what he is like.

Document.


Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
1 great kid.
Reconciling and healing

Posts: 1732 | Registered: Nov 2010
Tearsoflove
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She contacts you when she's the cheating whore who sleeps with married men. He lies and contacts her and then provides her with personal information about you to cause more insult to the injuries he's already caused. Apparently, they are two people who get off on hurting others.

Definitely let her have him. They deserve each other. Let them self-destruct together. Hopefully, he'll marry her and then the mistress position will open up for some other woman.


"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson


Posts: 4089 | Registered: Sep 2005
NeverAgain2013
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL...don't these low lives have anything better to do but read your posts and stalk you constantly?

Gee, she must be feeling a bit anxious about her married prize and what he's up to if she's SO interested in what you have to say.

Funny, I was just reading how another poster put a profile of her husband's ex-OW up on Cheaterville.com. After 8,000+ views and tons on comments on the ex-OW's profile, someone who knew her happened to see it and let her know that it was out there. Of course, she came crying to the BW and couldn't kiss her ass ENOUGH when she realized she was powerless to take it down herself and had to rely on the BW to do that FOR her. Ain't that a shame?

And boy, the ex-OW handed the BW everything she asked for once she realized the BW was the one holding all cards. Don't that beat all?

And wouldn't that be a riot if you did the same thing?

Just sayin'.

[This message edited by NeverAgain2013 at 3:15 PM, May 15th (Wednesday)]


Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 1753 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
Skan
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Out them. Out them now. Send her harassing emails to everyone she knows along with the story of how the ho helped to blow up your marriage. And out him to his job, his family, and all of your friends. They should know what kind of faithless asshole is breathing the same air as them.

From what I understand Dear Old Jack flunked out of his training because he couldn't man-up enough to pass his physical? Poor bebe'! Guess he forgot that you have to actually DO pushups with your arms and not other, equally inadequate, pieces of his anatomy.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4804 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, May 16th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you documented these contacts?

If you have, take the list and see a lawyer. Have the Lawyer draw up a cease letter and get her served with it.

Most of them slither away when faced with possible legal ramifications.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6547 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
undonelife
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, May 16th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

File a harassment report against her and take out a no contact order against her and him. Speak to an attorney to see if you can file suit separate from the D for mental stress and abuse.


Me: BS 53 Him: WH 51
M: 28 years
DDay 11/25/12 TT 9/9/13
OW:20 yrs younger McOW
Kids: 2 teens

Posts: 187 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Dark Hell
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, May 16th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Document all contact and file a harassment report with the police.

BOOM!

...put a profile of her husband's ex-OW up on Cheaterville.com. ... Of course, she came crying to the BW and couldn't kiss her ass ENOUGH...And boy, the ex-OW handed the BW everything she asked for once she realized the BW was the one holding all cards. Don't that beat all?

And wouldn't that be a riot if you did the same thing?

BOOM, BOOM!!

Out them. Out them now. Send her harassing emails to everyone she knows along with the story of how the ho helped to blow up your marriage. And out him to his job, his family, and all of your friends. They should know what kind of faithless asshole is breathing the same air as them.

BOOM, BOOM, BOOM!!!

I know that your head is reeling from this shitfest!

Take your power back. You are worth so much more than what he is giving you.

Him colluding with the whore is horrible (GAH!) but as you know he is a POD person now. Not the same guy you married, hell, he may have never been the guy you married. With all those lies he has been feeding your, its hard to tell.

Hang in there, we are rooting for you.

Strength and Light to you Stang!



WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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