He moved about 20+ minutes away, but he doesn't have a car.
I felt that he blew me off on my birthday, not trying to make any plans until right before I needed to leave for a family event. I told him after the event that my heart was broken that he didn't try and arrange anything. He blames it on not having a car and not wanting me to always have to drive since he moved so far.
We only see each other once a week at best....sometimes once every 10 days.
Jump to tonight. I find out that he had an opportunity to buy a car from a friend really cheap. So he did....for his son. I had a really bad day with work and an EX issue and this just set it off worse. I took him home and we didn't talk the whole 20 minute drive.
Tell me that I need to just end it. He's not a jerk. He's one of those guys that can say the right thing, but the actions stop adding up.
I am feeling anxious, because I suffer from anxiety horribly, but not especially sad. I'm not sure if I can get my emotions right on this.
I think you deserve someone willing to put in the effort.
Taking the bus to my house is do-able...but would probably take a good hour.
When the car opportuntity came up, I thought he wasn't getting it because he didn't have the money. Instead, to find out he was getting it to give his son, who is turning 21 and still doesn't have his license anyway, was a tipping point to me.
He blames his lack of car for the relationship issues I have brought up for months...basically, we don't see each other much.
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He hasn't contacted me today. I have a feeling that we are both done.
[This message edited by tabitha95 at 12:35 PM, May 15th (Wednesday)]
Car issues: strike two. I can understand living and not having a car. That in and of itself is not the point. The point is that he just doesn't want to make the effort. Period.
I want a fella who will make the effort. After all, you do and would, correct?
The people you do your life with shape the life you live