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User Topic: mediation is failing
abigailadams
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My stbx just this evening sent me and the mediator an email changing the amount due to me upon sale of our apartment. The first open house is scheduled for Sunday. I think I have to cancel it and have my attorney get in touch with his. I can't simply accept his terms which are now different than those that we discussed in mediation.

Have you had to pull the plug on mediation and go to court?


Me BS 54
Him WS 51
Married 10 years together 13
DDay October 11, 2012

Posts: 134 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Brooklyn, NY
Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, May 16th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He might be trying to strong arm you. Is it possible he's bluffing to get his way?

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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, May 16th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have to talk to your lawyer. No, he can't just decide to change the amount. It doesn't necessarily mean you have to cancel the open house, but I wouldn't accept any offer until you have the terms worked out.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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