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User Topic: Of course she did!
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Easier said than done of course. Her family has stood by me the whole time and basically shunned her. All of our friends rallied around me after D-day. So I would have a hard time asking them not to tell me things. Plus at some point I want to go back after custody. I need them to inform me of any screw ups she might make that would help my case. So I can't go NC with all of them. My in-laws help me out with child care too and I am sooo thankful for that. It may make me uncomfortable, but I will do what I have to do for me and the kids. I just tell myself that she can look for happiness in what ever form she wants. It will never be as good as what she had from me. And it will never be as good as the happiness I will eventually have.

BH me 46
WW her 38
DDay 8-17-12
2 kids (12, 9)
Filed for D 9/14/12
Divorced 4/17/13
She - engaged 5/13 married 9/13

Posts: 496 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: PA
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They usually get engaged or knocked up before the divorce is even final. The OW in my sitch started using his last name while we were still married. They were also engaged and she was knocked up before the divorce was final.

I wouldn't worry about her taking you to court. It hasn't been that long since you got divorced. I doubt anything has changed enough for her to get more money.

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

Posts: 4729 | Registered: Feb 2008
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My husband was engaged to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce. I thought I was happily married and he was engaged to another woman. Crazy making...

Me (BW) (54), Him(SAWH) (57)
Married 21 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

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