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User Topic: off the deep end.
ruinedandbroken
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Omgosh, I am so sorry. That is horrible.


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1575 | Registered: Aug 2010
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PR)))

I am so glad you have such a supportive network around you and a PO. Maybe I missed it but did it include the children? I truly hope it does cover them also.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1760 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry-- sending you prayers and positive thoughts. I'm glad that you're not alone and that his horrific actions were committed in front of many witnesses. Stay safe.

(((PR and kids)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3606 | Registered: Oct 2011
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Pr))

It is awful. How did it ever come to this? I will never understand them.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7694 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
VeryUncertain
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PR, that's terrible. I am so sorry. I'm with ButterflyGirl...the fact that it was out in the open is particularly scary.

Stay safe.


BS (Me): 38
WH: 43
2 beautiful, precious daughters: 4 & 2
Found out early Aug. 2012, separated 2/4/13, in R (?) since 7/2013.

Posts: 164 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: MD
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My kids are so jumpy.

The doorbell rang tonight and my son peeked at the door and freaked out because he thought it was his dad. He came running saying MOM!! I think it's dad! It's a grown up and looks like dad!! (Our door has frosted glass)

I grabbed my phone, locked the kids in my room and went to see. It was our new neighbor, thank god, but I felt a huge rush of emotion and lost it after opening the door. I bet she thinks I'm a freak.

I hate this. My son came down from his bath to show me marks on his arm that look just like mine- a line of fingerprints on his bicep. :( damn it. I'm so angry.

My poor baby. This is just so wrong.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3604 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((PR)))))

Just sending you love and strength. It's a whole new level of crazy, and I'm so sorry you and the kids having to go through it.


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1171 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
peridot
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sure you've probably already done this but make sure you take pics of all yours and the kids injuries. It'll help with the VPO.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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keeponkeepingon
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Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PM sent to you and lots of love.


"I know you and you know me and I know you can see. So help me get my way back to you"

Posts: 1005 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: On the corner of Grey St at the end of the world
crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((PurpleRose & kids))))

My heart just breaks for you and your kids. May you all rise above this and find peace.


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
jjsr
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't normally post in this forum but wanted to say I hope you and your kids are safe. Sending you all good thoughts


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1632 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is just so wrong.
Yes, this is categorically and completely wrong and very fucked up - but what matters most right now is that you and your kids are safe. ((Hugs)) We're all thinking about you my friend.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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