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User Topic: What Songs Inspire You?
stilltrying2025
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been doing a lot of walking lately and I put my headphones on and crank the music. I'm looking for really inspiring music, music that helps me believe everything will be okay. Right now I'm stuck on Sara Evans, A Little Bit Stronger.

What do the rest of you listen to that helps inspire you and give you hope?


Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

Posts: 184 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Minnesota
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Marry the Night by Lady Gaga.

I'm a Warrior Queen.


I'm Happy, not Sad!

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stilltrying2025
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the song! Downloading it as I type this!


Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

Posts: 184 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Minnesota
persevere
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stronger by Kelly Clarkson and Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) by Green Day...that's all that's popping into my head right now - I'll post more later.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Firework - Katy Perry
Stronger & Mr know it all - Kelly Clarkson
Leave the pieces - Wreckers
Take a bow - Rihanna
Red high heels - Kellie Pickler
You'll think of me - Keith Urban
I'm gone - Cyndi Thomson


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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stilltrying2025
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all for the suggestions! Love it

My walks are going to get a hundred times better with good music going!


Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

Posts: 184 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Minnesota
wanttofeelwhole
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ill apologize in advance, bad with names

Love...a little bit stronger....

Pink rock star
Motley crew just go away
Gretchen wilson The next time that he cheats
Carrie underwood has a great one as well I can't think of the name
Angry all the time Tim McGraw


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Love is giving someone the power to destroy you...but trusting them not to.-Unknown
For every good reason there is to lie, there is a better reason to tell the truth.-Bo Bennett
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stilltrying2025
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another really good one is You Learn by Alanis Morissette!


Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

Posts: 184 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Minnesota
Simcoe
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Never Too Late - Hedley
Gives You Hell - All American Rejects
Inner Ninja - Classified

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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pink- Blow Me

The Band Perry- Done


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3544 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Pretender-Foo Fighters
The Kill-30 Seconds to Mars
Outside-Staind
Anything by Linkin Park.
Anything by AC/DC.


"When I die, hallelujah bye and bye, I'll fly away."
Multiple D-days, divorcing

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Jayne Doe
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is exactly what I did and it really helped me heal! Music is food for the soul and it's true....

Let me add some of my favs -
Love Don't Live Here Anymore - Lady Antebellum
Pink - Blow Me & Try
Gone - Montgomery Gentry (I can't stand them but I LOVE this song!)
Never Again - Kelly Clarkson
Hit the Road Jack - Ray Charles
Are You Happy Now? - Michelle Branch
Leave the Pieces When You Go - the Wreckers
My Give-A-Damn's Busted - JoDee Messina if you listen to nothing else on this list, promise me you will listen to this one by JoDee
I Didn't Know My Own Strength - Lorrie Morgan
There's More to Me Than You - Jessica Andrews
eta - The Beatles - I'm Looking Thru You

I told you it helped me heal I actually have more on my playlist.

[This message edited by Jayne Doe at 10:41 PM, May 19th (Sunday)]


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S 11/11, D final 1/14.

Posts: 1454 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Suburbia, Arizona
stilltrying2025
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I found another inspiring song. It's called "Not as We" by Alanis Morissette! I love this woman!!!!!


Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

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stilltrying2025
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry I keep posting to this but sometimes I think we need a little inspiration to get us through. Another song that I've been listening to is "I Don't Love You" by My Chemical Romance. It makes me get up and wanna dance even though it's a slow song.


Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

Posts: 184 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Minnesota
stilltrying2025
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damn, found another one by Alanis. It's called "Uninvited". Wow, love this woman's singing! She reminds me a little of Janis Joplin. I love Janis' songs


Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

Posts: 184 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Minnesota
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am looking through you...by Steve Earle


Me: BH 40
Her: WW 35
DDay #1: 9/28/2012
TT until:
DDay #2: 1/03/2013
2.5 yr LTA EA/PA
Dday #3 6/19/2013 OM #2
DD 4
DS 7
She moved out on 7/2/2013

Posts: 94 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: The best Virginia
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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happened to catch "First Wives Club" on television today, and I couldn't resist including the main song to this list!

You Don't Own Me - Leslie Gore (original artist)


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XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


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Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stand by Rascal Flats. I HATE that band and most country music, but that song I love.. Also End of Night by Dido, which I know of because someone else posted it several weeks ago. Also I Will Wait by Munford and Sons, which sounds slightly religious and I'm not religious, but it has a couple lines that speak to me.


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3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

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JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Paramore- Playing God, Ignorance, and Feeling Sorry. Pretty much anything from their Brand New Eyes album.

[This message edited by JessicaFL127 at 6:13 AM, May 26th (Sunday)]


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mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


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JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 6:30 AM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sick Puppies- All the Same, My World

On second thought, All the Same is kinda ridiculously codependent. Don't listen to that one unless from an ironic, looking back perspective. I really couldn't see it back then.

[This message edited by JessicaFL127 at 6:49 AM, May 26th (Sunday)]


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


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