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Am I really that out of touch? Is sending pics of your man junk and lady (skank) parts common place now? It creeps me out in a 'he'll lick your face when you're sleeping' kind of way that he did this. Am I married to the creepy carry a briefcase for a telemarketing job guy? I can't believe the women that did this, some dumb enough to have their face in the pics. Not one worried that the pics would end up in the hands of his angry wife. Is it just me? Maybe I'm just a prude? I am really disgusted by this.

No it is disgusting. I have a hard time sending pics to my own WH let alone some stranger.

Like you said with today's technology I wouldn't post or send anything that could be incriminating or embarrassing.

I know right? My WH got them from dozens of women

And to use your face in your AFF profile? How stupid are these people? This is why I cant stand to meet people's eyes in public. I feel like they all know, and I wonder EVERYWHERE I go and see an even halfway attractive woman if she sexted my WH.

You aren't crazy but it is surprisingly common.

My friends are doing some online dating. Legitimate dating sites, not craigslist or anything. It is not uncommon for the second or third email to be requesting "Pics" and sending same. I don't get it.

His were from coworkers, women he would see everyday. I thought he was dumb trusting that they wouldn't get mad at him and embarrass him. The levels of stupidity still shocks me.

Am I really that out of touch? Is sending pics of your man junk and lady (skank) parts common place now?

Apparently so. I thought former NFL qb Brett Favre was a real creep when I heard he did this, but my own lovely bride and her AP exchanged these types of pics. They were both around 40 when this happened. And as an added bonus, our daughters found them on my wife's cell.

As if the disgust factor couldn't get any higher.

I haven't dated anyone other than my wife in almost 19 years, so maybe this is what passes for normal dating behavior today.

The Apocalypse is upon us.

Close after d day we were having a heated discussion and I was thinking of Brett farve and screamed at WH that he was a punch line. Seriously I thought that was for promiscuous very young people. Apparently we here at IS are old school thinking your stuff is still private. Lord have mercy I'm raising teenagers in this world.

Pride and self-esteem keep me from doing anything like that. I imagine the people who do it either don't value themselves or -- like Brett Favre -- live on a different world with different consequences.

I feel like they all know, and I wonder EVERYWHERE I go and see an even halfway attractive woman if she sexted my WH.

I know that my STBX was a member of some cheating websites. So I wonder with every woman I meet if she's had sex with my STBX (or blown him, or let him pee on her). I don't think that will ever go away.

Seriously I thought that was for promiscuous very young people.

I think you're on to something, Triple. Early on after D Day I asked my 41-year old wife what the hell she was thinking, and her reply was "Going out to the dance club made me feel like I was 20 again." I remember going out with her a couple of times during the affair period and being a little embarrassed by her behavior - binge drinking, dancing suggestively, a real party girl. So maybe that's what's going on, a MLC crisis where they start acting like Kevin Spacey's character in American Beauty.

At least she's acting like a 40-something wife and mom, again. Maybe your husband will come around, 41.

Yep we sure are out of touch. I got a couple of video and pics of her twat. No face but definitely her wedding ring. Also a necklace in her boob shots.

Guess what an angry wife has those vids and pics now. I kinda hope she is wondering when they are going to surface.

On another note...ladies and gentlemen when sending these pics, please realize that you are releases all rights to said pictures. You never know where they might just end up.

Maybe I am weird but if I was dating someone I would be skeeved out by junk pics. Its just not very um, flattering.

I am so naive that for the first 2 years of seeing this stuff with my own eyes, I believed his lies ( it was actually never posted, those were pics an idiot friend sent me, your BIL actually did it while visiting etc.). I'm still having a hard time believing real people do these kinds of things!

About 1 or 2 yrs ago I was discussing this with one of my childhood friends. She said it wasnt something she did but some of her friends did. My friend said it was how they showed love.

This philosopby baffles me. I dont see how being an amature porno star proves your love. I thought love was a bit more evolved. Wh's ow philosopby of love was throwing herself at him, doing his every whim and making illicit videos and photos

I talk to the kids I work with (mid - late 20s) & they ALL have pix of other ppl's privates. And they have no problem showing them to me!

I find it befuddling ...

Some mates do- they send pics to me sometimes of skanky girls.

Not something I've done.

OMG. One of WH's coworkers sent him pics of her privates! WTF?!? I found her on facebook and let her know that a) I've seen them, and b) I have a copy. If it wouldn't fuck up his career as much as hers, I'd print them out for their superior officers.

I don't get it why you'd want to send someone a picture like that. Apparently I'm also living in the wrong time period.

I'm liking people my kind of age also thinking it's weird- my mates make me sound like I'm an oldie or a prude.

I sent a pic of an incredibly tensed stomach once- and I thought I was being risqué!

Count me in as a 'prude' then.

It all comes down to self-respect, or lack thereof.

And seriously, who finds junk pics attractive?

I'm certain STBXWH sent and received these type of pics - he's 50. Walking talking midlife crisis.

It creeps me out in a 'he'll lick your face when you're sleeping' kind of way

That's good stuff there! In all seriousness, completely creepy. How am I supposed to ever move on knowing that from here to the end of time this DB is out there yanking it to pictures of my wife. She's tried to convince herself that he would probably delete them right after to make sure his wife wouldn't find them. Wrong that's not how men work, he's hanging on to those pics forever. It's digusting and just another way she degraded herself.