I know I have seen this before but can't find it.
WH has always had an overly decent sex drive. The past three weeks, not anything. Normally two-three days was the longest he would go before trying to initiate if I wasn't the one trying to initiate.
I do not suspect an affair or new contact with old affair person.
This past month he has finally demonstrated that he gets what he did. The impact of it, how shitty he has treated me and the kids, etc. I have initiated a number of times and get told he isn't in the mood, too tired, etc. for lack of a better wording, all the equipment is working
Could the guilt be killing his libido? Or could he be "punishing" himself? Can anyone relate?
I need to feel some connection to him physically. Not feeling wanted physically is making my already low self esteem tip lower.