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User Topic: When will I stop feeling like a crazy person???
lostandconfused4
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seriously I cannot handle the feeling crazy; I go from being happy to being angry to being hopeful, despair, to being relieved that I finally know what the big wedge between us is to being thankful that we finally have the open and honest communication, back to being happy, to being angry, and so on. I really don't think one person is supposed to feel all of these emotions in the same day , let alone at the same time. Please tell me this eventually fades... Or maybe I really have just lost my mind from all of this...

[This message edited by lostandconfused4 at 5:58 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)]


me: 26 BW
him: 28 WH (patientarcher)
2 beautiful girls
D Day April 26th, 2013
In marriage, secrets are as dangerous as lies. Build your marriage on complete trust, honesty and communication

Posts: 16 | Registered: May 2013
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It IS crazymaking - and I promise it fades.

We've been in your shoes. It feels like there's a tornado in your brain, and lava in your veins.

Just take care of yourself as much as you can right now. Know that this is completely normal, and it won't last forever.

(((lostandconfused4)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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HeartInADustpan
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jrazz is right on.

I'm 6 months out and I still have and occasional "crazy" day. They do fade.

There are a few months I can't even remember what happened. DDay felt like it was "just yesterday" for a very long time. Then it went to "just last week" for a couple months. I'm just now getting to where time is making sense again.

Hang in there.


Just call me Heart. :)
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"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
Daisy312
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One year out, and I still feel the way you do, and it is very hard. On my good days I sometimes feel like I'm waiting to trigger and I will spiral into anger or sadness, etc... I have more good days than before, but I'm still a mess. I wish I had advice, but I don't. Just wanted to let you know you are normal, not alone, and not crazy

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hobbeskat
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just want to do a, "three months from D-day and feeling completely insane" fist-bump with you here. You're not alone.

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lostandconfused4
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all! In just a few days it will be a month and the waves of emotion are nuts. I spend enough time questioning him, I don't want to have to question my sanity on top of it.


me: 26 BW
him: 28 WH (patientarcher)
2 beautiful girls
D Day April 26th, 2013
In marriage, secrets are as dangerous as lies. Build your marriage on complete trust, honesty and communication

Posts: 16 | Registered: May 2013
huRtZ413
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

same boat about a month out from it all and i find myself so hopeful and full of love and passion then sobbing then happy again that we finally have a connection and can openly talk without yelling and then sad and lost .....WH gets tired too but is persistent but we both get heach aches and feel like we could pull our hair out



me_BW
him_WH


I'M ON THE FENCE



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
lostandconfused4
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could have written that huRtZ413 it is exactly how it goes for us also


me: 26 BW
him: 28 WH (patientarcher)
2 beautiful girls
D Day April 26th, 2013
In marriage, secrets are as dangerous as lies. Build your marriage on complete trust, honesty and communication

Posts: 16 | Registered: May 2013
outtanowhere
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooo...

I feel so much better now! I really miss my mind!


BS - 58
SAWH - 61 multiple encounters with prostitutes and other sex workers
Married 38 years
Dday - 2/19/13 - found the emails
He promised me Heaven then put me thru hell

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