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User Topic: Awesome! DWtS & Mistresses
PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks to ya sista for sharing! I just realized I say my H's name and you know what, that would be something that only we would share. I seriously doubt the foreign prostitutes who don't speak English would have done that! From what I understand they do a bunch of fake moaning which is so ridiculous I can laugh about it!
Now about that show......... why aren't more people in our society outraged about it!!!!


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 471 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
MartlArts
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sister -
I love your posts!

And - this didn't happen to me - I swear - BUT - I know one lady who was receiving oral pleasuring and got so - relaxed, I guess - that she farted! Saying 'Awesome' is a lot less embarrassing than that, I would think.
:laugh
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[This message edited by MartlArts at 2:53 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)]


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

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idiot85
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My wifey once shouted 'ON IT!!!' - how weird is that?! She was really embarrassed but, apparently I was on it yey go me!! Now if someone at work happens to say something like 'yep! I'm on it' my wife gets the giggles.

My sisters watched Mistresses and I've seen a few episodes- God, I wouldn't watch them now. We got Law and Order: UK you get Mistresses and the Office... I'm sorry although Dancing with the Stars is based on Strictly Come Dancing and you like that- woohoo!!

MartlArts- Someone in a book I read once did that- I was like, that is...AWESOME ha

[This message edited by idiot85 at 3:05 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)]


BH-29 (me)
WW-28

Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.


Posts: 575 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Old Blighty
Bikingguy
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Slight T/J here: subject of saying spouses name. I cannot recall once in 17 years, WW calling my name out during "what not":) However she did once after D day and it creeped me out. Of course I wondered if she had to think about it for a minute and of course wondered if she called out OM's name (wanted to use a different acronym but we are in the R forum).
I think I mentioned it and she has not said "biking guy" since then.

SMS, kudos to MMS for causing the outburst and kudos to you for providing him the chance to do so.


Me: BH, 44
Her: WW, 43
D day. January 12, 2013

Posts: 670 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Socal
Teach8
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm literally giggling like a fool right now. Great responses. :) I haven't shouted anything but did have my 8 and 10 year olds ask me one morning if I was ok cause they heard me the night before. Nothing like having my 2 sons make my own noises back at me the whole next day! I thought they were asleep! Needless to say I was mortified.


Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R

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LA44
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Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are going away Sat. for the night. I am going to have to throw out a few ha la la's or oh bla dee/oh bla dah's around for good measure.

Maybe I will yell, WHAT NOT! MILKSHAKE!! thanks to SMS for this hilarious post!


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2111 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ahmmm I have yelled out a few things from time to time. Awesome isn't one of them but CRANK IT was


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just have minute, but just wanted to let you know I so appreciate all your responses. Hope to get back to this tomorrow morning.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
millienotboo
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Angel....this was many years ago now but once while my daughter was three and SUPPOSED to be asleep I was rolling around and looked over and there was my beautiful, curly haired daughter...watching us, leaning on the bed with her head resting on her hand. I screamed and he stopped and she said "what ya screaming about, mommy?"
He took her by the hand and led her to her room and as she was walking she told her daddy that she was trying to sleep, ask mommy to be quiet.


M-8 yrs together 11
Me-45 BW
Him-49-WH
D-Day 10-10-2008
In R

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Hearthache again
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Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know one lady who was receiving oral pleasuring and got so - relaxed, I guess - that she farted! Saying 'Awesome' is a lot less embarrassing than that, I would think.

I have had this happened before. I wasn't to embarrassed though. Just laughed it off.

I am very vocal in bed. I do remember one time in the middle of summer we had the windows open. Well a bunch of young guys were walking down the street laughing because they heard us. That was a little embarrassing.

As for yelling out stuff. You name it I have said it. When I am in a goofy mood I will say strange stuff. My H is a great sport he just rolls with it. I asked him once if he cared what I said. His response "as long as I am having sex it does not matter what you say."



Me-BS(32)
Him-WS(35)
Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
I edit a lot because that stupid box is so small!


Posts: 871 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Michigan
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

focus on the present and how well things are going when I trigger.
we just hold each other during these times. It's a small gesture, but it really means a lot to me.
Grimwyrm, thanks for sharing your tips. That is what we usually do, too. I am glad your WW is helping you through your triggers.

BikingGuy ~ you are right, we really do need a DVR in our bedroom. Does it bother you that your WW is a bit loud?

kudos to MMS for causing the outburst
I think that after his initial surprise he is actually kind of proud of himself!
hearing her mother scream during sex is going to scar her for sure.
when I can make him yell out I usually hold my head up a little higher
Angel ~

PinkJeepLady ~ I am glad you got something positive for yourself out of my thread. You never know what weird little thing you share is going to help in some small way.

she farted! Saying 'Awesome' is a lot less embarrassing than that
MartlArts ~ I agree and thanks.

I85 ~ that is hysterical. "ON IT" I will have a soft spot for your wife from this day forward.

my 2 sons make my own noises back at me the whole next day! I thought they were asleep! Needless to say I was mortified.
Oh, my goodness, Teach, I would be bright red and burning up all day! Scamps!

LA44 ~ have a great time Saturday night. Yell out some good stuff and come back and share, please?

girlsbird ~ Crank it!

as she was walking she told her daddy that she was trying to sleep, ask mommy to be quiet.
What a sweetie, millie, I hope she was able to get some sleep.
His response "as long as I am having sex it does not matter what you say."
I feel maybe MisterSister is in that camp, too, Heartache.

Thanks so much everyone. I am not quite so embarrassed anymore and I appreciate you sharing your intimate moments with me. You all have provided many laughs which is always a bonus. Can't ever laugh too much. Except at funerals. Yeah, I got the giggles and couldn't stop. At a funeral. Another story, another day.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hahaha, you are so adorable sister! I love it! It's what you were feeling and you meant it. Your post made me smile instantly, then made me teary eyed for your loss and raging bc of your pain...

much love going out your way, my sister!


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 boys. M 6yrs T13.
DDay #1 Nov, 2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan, 2014
Filed for D Feb, 2014.He will cheat again. But, It wont be on me.

Posts: 911 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, little sister liberty!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
idiot85
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Default  Posted: 5:21 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to shout something like 'yikes!' in a scooby doo way... or may just shout 'scooby dooby doooooo!' That'd throw the Mrs off haha.

I wonder if my wife's face looked how it does on the pic on the pic thread- haha I wish I'd been looking... too busy concentrating at being on it I guess haha

I defo think louder the better- if the Mrs is quiet I think I'm doing it wrong!!


BH-29 (me)
WW-28

Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.


Posts: 575 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Old Blighty
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad we only have Netflix so that can't happen. We were watching Star Trek 2 last night while Wotnaught was engaged, and I considered yelling KHAAAAN but.. now I don't know why I didn't. It would have forever made that an inside euphemism. Damn.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

'scooby dooby doooooo!'
I considered yelling KHAAAAN


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

if my wife's face looked how it does on the pic on the pic thread
Bwahahaha! Just looked at your pics, very good looking couple, I85. I am thinking your face looks like your brothers when you are ON IT!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
idiot85
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd be even more handsome with less forehead haha I've shaved my head recently (don't know why- it was impulsive and now I regret it!)

I like to think I have just like a nod and smile... Like a Barry White kind of 'ooh yeah' but in reality something funny defo happens to my face because afterwards I get frown lines- I obviously concentrate (being the dutiful husband that I am) ha

I think if she actually pulled that face I'd be like 'oh God what??!!' Maybe a shout of 'wrong h...!!' I won't finish that sentence, it's early haha


BH-29 (me)
WW-28

Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.


Posts: 575 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Old Blighty
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haha, sister and your 'awesomeness' crack me up!

I'm sure I've told this story before, but I will tell it again and bore everyone.

I'm naturally pretty vocal in the sack. I can not help it, I honestly can not control it. When the kiddos were little I really had to struggle to keep it as quiet as possible.

But when DS had moved in with his girlfriend, and we were in HB, FWH finally convinced me to leave the bedroom door open. (for years it always had to be closed and LOCKED).

So, on the very first night we left it open, we were going at it like rabbits, and I was totally uninhibited, loud, slurping sounds, dirty talk, moaning screaming, the whole 9 yards.

And, it was a MARATHON session, probably 1 1/2 hrs, lol.

As we quieted down, H heard a sound in the laundry room. Scared the crap out of us, and he walked down the hall naked (who confronts an intruder on the nude?), and guess what there was DS. It was after midnight. FWH was like, "WTF DS? What are you doing here in the middle of the night"? DS said that he had been hanging out at a friends house down the street, and decided to come by our house to pick up something before he drove back to his GF's house.

Months later, his GF told me that DS had come into the house, heard us having rowdy sex, and was so freaked out and embarrassed for us to know that he was in the house, that he sat down on the floor of the laundry room and started texting her trying to figure a way to get out of the house without us hearing him!
She said he was forever traumatized!

I guarantee you he is not anywhere nearly as traumatized as I am!

The door will never be left open again!

[This message edited by painpaingoaway at 10:36 AM, May 27th (Monday)]


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I guarantee you he is not anywhere nearly as traumatized as I am!
I bet!

I do feel a little sorry for your DS, though. You know, parents only had sex for the number of children they have had. Like my parents only have had sex 10 times in their 65 year marriage. And it was vewy, vewy quiet.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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