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User Topic: What you doing to R today?
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmmm.... (8 years into this)

I'll greet him at the door like I do everynight and kiss him silly until we both giggle...

We'll talk about our days and he'll listen to my overy emotional account of our granddaughters last day of kindergarten...

He'll probably go on a training bike ride & I'll take my granddaughter for a riding lesson on my horse...

We'll have a cocktail and talk about his bike ride & granddaughters lesson...

We'll catch up on the hockey playoffs and razz each other on our teams success or loss...

We'll go to bed and read, snuggle and fall asleep holding hands.. or maybe a mid'nighter' .....

You know - just the usual.

[This message edited by Lucky at 8:29 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)]

♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥

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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I forced her to go to bed with our DS after her recital because she's been exhausted all day today. I also came home early from work, bought flowers, and nursed her all afternoon.

Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

Posts: 801 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, May 23rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm working out of town, so no nooners or world rocking.

We have text, chatted, video chatted, and called all day.

I have been staying in positive thoughts. I was thinking how well she has been doing juggling R, kids, home, recovery, me, extended family. And not just doing it but excelling at it. Who is this super woman?

Oh wait, I know. The woman I always knew she could be.

I cant wait to get home tomorrow night.

BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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Default  Posted: 7:11 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I sent him a love note/email to work telling him how much I loved him, he rocked my world and I was giving him all my love,& letting him all in...He replied he loved me and said "I am all-in too."
I plan on showing him today

Me-BS 51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.

Posts: 615 | Registered: Oct 2011
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got up with him before he went to work so we could spend quiet time together before the kids get up.
I'm going to not bring up the OW today. I am going to put one foot after the other and move forward.

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 361 | Registered: May 2013
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am going to hold true to what I told him last night - That I am not leaving, that I love him and I do want to work through this. But also that's he's used all his mulligans now and I can and will move on without him should he even come remotely close to placing his head back inside his behind!

Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.

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