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What to say....one year anniversary of death

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 Chrysalis123 (original poster member #27148) posted at 12:06 AM on Friday, May 24th, 2013

I have an acquaintance that lost her long term spouse 1 year ago tomorrow. I would like to say or write something, but don't really know what to say.

Any ideas?

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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notmeanymore ( member #9772) posted at 12:18 AM on Friday, May 24th, 2013

I have a very good friend at work who's daughter committed suicide. I always make sure I acknowledge her birthday and the day she died.

I usually just write something short, like "thinking of you today".

"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:18 AM on Friday, May 24th, 2013

It can be something very simple, like "I'm thinking of you today." or "You're in my thoughts today."

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 1:48 AM on Friday, May 24th, 2013

I have a very good friend who remembers the day I gave birth to my stillborn son. She always sends a card with the words.. I want you to know that I am thinking of you today and keeping you in my prayers.

She's been sending them since 1991. I look forward to having the day acknowledged by someone besides me.

Hugs,

K

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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