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User Topic: I got a text...
rumorhasit
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From Mrs. Robinson. I will do bullet points.

-Stop contacting *****'s family members.
- Stop trash talking ***** behind his back to his fb friends
-you have been removed from the email list for (community service group) so you don't know where he'll be. They all know you are not to be near him.
-I know you have been stalking me by looking up my address and talking to my exhusband which is illegal and mental.
-We are getting married.
-We are very happy.
- This is the truth.
- If you do not stop harrassing him we will file a restraining order.
- Leave us alone.

I could go through each item and comment but why bother. I didnt respond. FTW!


BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin


Posts: 205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern California
newlysingle
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Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What the fuckity fuck? Is she in middle school?


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 807 | Registered: Mar 2013
BrighterFuture
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Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 1:19 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ignore her! She'll feed of the drama to keep the relationship going. FTB


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 332 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
rumorhasit
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Member # 38943
Default  Posted: 1:21 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sadly no, she is supposedly an adult.

His family loves me.

I havent trash talked him. I have talked to MY friends on fb for support, they just also happen to be his. I don't have to give them up, its not my fault he's an ass.

I was unaware of any issues with the community group and have not caused any trouble.

Looking up an address and speaking briefly to one person is not stalking.

Getting married? Good luck with that because they're both nuts.

Happy? He's a mess and is one temptation away from cheating on her from what I heard.

Leave "us" alone? I have been!


BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin


Posts: 205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern California
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 3:23 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gosh, is she my WH OW? Gees, they seem exactly alike! She doesn't text me, but she uses my H mouth to talk for her.

I stay away from them.

Unfortunately my children are in the mix with them and don't see thru it yet.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 1948 | Registered: Jan 2012
stronger08
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Default  Posted: 4:13 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I were you I would take those texts to the cops and file your own RO. Explain that this woman is delusional and you fear her. Tell the police the whole sordid story and how she is making false statements about you stalking her. That you just want to be left alone and this nut will not allow that. Dont sit there while she tries to hold you hostage legally. Beat her old cheating ass to the punch. You may not get your RO. But you will get things on record.


You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

Posts: 5546 | Registered: Nov 2007
rumorhasit
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Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Getting things on record would be good, however for now I am choosing to do nothing. If I get any other threats I will take action at that point.

Its frustrating that he's going along with this crazy nonsense. I doubt he even knows what exactly she said to me.
This threat feels like an attempt to isolate me and remove some of my support. Also to shake me, by telling me they are getting married. I doubt he proposed, ring and all. Maybe she doesn't need one, this being at least her third marriage. What an auspicious beginning to their life together.


BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin


Posts: 205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern California
Take2
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know you have been stalking me by looking up my address and talking to my exhusband which is illegal and mental.

So in her world looking up an addresses is illegal? And it is illegal for you to speak to her STBX, but she can sleep with and marry yours?
This broad is a Total FRUITLOOP!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a prize-- not sure which one of them-- by what a prize they each get!!!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3511 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
TrustNoOne
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have a ring-side seat to the crazy train downward spiral.

You just know OW is sitting somewhere firing off those texts, not receiving any responses...going insane; asking herself - is she getting my texts; am I scaring her; pissing her off; is she IGNORING me; is she forwarding my texts to him??????

Ignore her. You are the one in control here.


Posts: 1320 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: SoCal
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is really trying to convince herself of these things to make what she's doing okay. When she stops focusing on you, she won't be very happy with what she sees in her own yard.

Yeah, what a fruitloop. Don't you dare do anything to her that's even close to what she's done to you

FTB..


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 6

Posts: 1989 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
sunshine226
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

give her crickets, save the text and just sit back and wait, she is spinning her web and trying to take you down, dont let her do it

She is just stirring up trouble and trying to get a reaction out of you, I have to wonder is there is a OW guide book out there somewhere that they all go by, because many of them seem to pull the same crap with the BS

OW in my case tried to make me believe my WH and her were looking at rings together (WH told me everytime they go to a mall she goes to the jewelry store) that they go to church together , and that she has met WH's neice (he told me the real story on that and neice confirmed it a few months later, since when does seeing someone in the food court off in the distance qualify as "meeting" someone)

Dont let this get to you, let her spuw her nonsense and sit back with a huge bowl of popcorn and watch the show


Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2013
rumorhasit
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup, yup. It did shake me when I first read it, but after checking things out with a couple of people I relaxed.

I'm not letting anything get to me anymore I swear!

And I do so enjoy sharing the latest WTF-ery with all of you!


BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin


Posts: 205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern California
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know. According to her X she's crazy, right?

She might be trying to establish a faked trail of harassment. I'd err on the side of CYA.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

❣I hope my issues don't discourage ur healing. I've buried a lot & my WH hasn't done his part in R❣


Posts: 10982 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Limbo
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

talking to my exhusband which is illegal

Makes me wonder if she is seeing signs he is cheating on her


Posts: 472 | Registered: Jun 2012
wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They turn into such middle-schoolers so fast.

Hey Mrs. R, go shit in a hat and wear it. It'll suit you.



Posts: 14310 | Registered: Jun 2008
Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hang in there! She just sounds incredibly insecure.


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1170 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
peridot
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You need to be careful. I've dealt with the crazy OW who likes to file false allegations to get a VPO. Don't trust that your XH doesn't know either. I wouldn't trust either of them. He's a stranger to you now and will do whatever she says. Do you have kids together?


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4678 | Registered: Feb 2008
rumorhasit
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is VPO?

We have one DS2. I have filed for custody and we have mediation in July.


BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin


Posts: 205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern California
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 7:47 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like the ole' bait and tackle.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess


Posts: 2132 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
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