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rumorhasit
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Default  Posted: 1:22 AM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just want her to go away and for WXBF to think for himself!

I'm sick of feeling ganged up on! I want to deal with HIM not "THEM"


BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin


Posts: 205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern California
Bravenewgirl
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Default  Posted: 7:08 AM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The best you can do is not respond (but document in case she escalates). They probably need drama to fuel their lurrrve. Bonding over your alleged stalking is the glue that holds them together.

Don't engage with either of them and watch how fast they come apart.

She sounds like a perfect idiot. Talking to her BH is illegal...snort.


Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty

Posts: 661 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Canada
rumorhasit
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah.

I'm the sort of person who wears their heart on their sleeve. I have no poker face. I do try to express my emotions appropriately, I'm just very bad at acting fine when I'm not. And that is what I have to do because I do not want to fuel their relationship anymore. I must be stronger. There are "safe" people I can talk to. For everyone else I'll have to pretend.


BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin


Posts: 205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern California
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