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User Topic: Anything positive?
girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our lives are in a great place right now. He loves me and I love him. I still have some down times but they are few and far between. I don't post often but read daily and just want to wrap my arms around the folks who are struggling.

It hasn't been an easy road and during the last year I had to support my son who also went thru this terrible ordeal. I do believe with what I have learned I was able to support him and help him thru all of this. He and his WS are reconciling now as well.


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
La Traviata
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Things are going better. I've decided to give it "one more year" and I'm breaking with both AA tradition and SI doctrine and I gave him a list of things to do that would demonstrate his dedication and show me that things really are different this time.

If after this year the cycle repeats, I'm gone with a clear plan and a clear conscience. I hope that doesn't happen though.

One of my conditions was that he pack up all our stuff and move to a new apartment (and unpack!) I thought he would find an excuse for why that was ridiculous but he didn't. With any luck, I go home to a new home in early July


me: BW 31
him: WH, 29
DDay: 4/16/12
RelapseDay:4/15/13

A year of false R. I grew and worked, he didn't. He took off his wedding ring during an alcoholic relapse, I packed and left the next day. I went back 8 weeks later, working hard


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