Things are going better. I've decided to give it "one more year" and I'm breaking with both AA tradition and SI doctrine and I gave him a list of things to do that would demonstrate his dedication and show me that things really are different this time.
If after this year the cycle repeats, I'm gone with a clear plan and a clear conscience. I hope that doesn't happen though.
One of my conditions was that he pack up all our stuff and move to a new apartment (and unpack!) I thought he would find an excuse for why that was ridiculous but he didn't. With any luck, I go home to a new home in early Julyme: BW 31
him: WH, 29
A year of false R. I grew and worked, he didn't. He took off his wedding ring during an alcoholic relapse, I packed and left the next day. I went back 8 weeks later, working hard