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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww hon, I'm so sorry you had to be dealt that lousy hand.

I see by your signature that you're in the process of getting divorced. I think that's a real good path you're on and you should continue with it.

I almost feel like this confrontation - as hideous as it was - was a sign from above to let you know you're headed on the right path.

Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 1800 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Be strong and kind to yourself.

You did not deserve this behavior and betrayal.

I too had similar situation of WS not choosing me over OW. It is more hurtful than the affair. Just humiliating, plain and simple

You had every right to be there, he just got caught.

Hang in there, so many of us understand your pain

BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 618 | Registered: Jul 2012
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ohhhhh Bellecatprincess, so sorry. i am so sorry, to have another Dday like that. Agony, and to be in False R, horrible.

One day when the pain subsides I hope you might see this oh so painful event as a gift, which allowed you to see the truth and move on. I struggle with seeing the true colors of my WS; at this point i would almost want confirmation of his A**holeness just so i can move on with clarity.

Wishing you strength

Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Now homeless but getting it together. Necessary but difficult(!) transition! Sad sad sad but hopeful.

Posts: 554 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: theagonyofit
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a bastard. I know there's supposed to be no bashing in this forum, but I assume that's meant for a remorseful WS in true R, yeah? So...yeah, he's a bastard. He's eating cake.

I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

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