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Betrayed444 (original poster member #38389) posted at 3:44 PM on Saturday, May 25th, 2013
I have her PW. She gave it to me. It appears to be scrubbed pretty good. Any investigative tips? Where to begin? And any sleuth settings?
Thanks
toby ( member #10337) posted at 3:53 PM on Saturday, May 25th, 2013
I've never tried it, but read here that you can download Facebook data from General Account Settings.
Betrayed444 (original poster member #38389) posted at 4:46 PM on Saturday, May 25th, 2013
You think that would include deleted messages?
Pippy ( member #16482) posted at 5:37 PM on Saturday, May 25th, 2013
Also try going into her "Photos" file. Click on each of them to see comments if any are there.
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
Betrayed444 (original poster member #38389) posted at 1:54 AM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
If you were given access what would you check
courageous ( member #34477) posted at 9:51 AM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Messages that were deleted are never actually completely deleted. Downloading the data will give you the deleted messages too. It will also make them reappear in the account I believe.
Me: BW (in my 40's) Him: ExWH EA/PA with MOW coworker(also married). He ended up marrying his mistress.
Betrayed444 (original poster member #38389) posted at 4:37 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Really. I heard they were gone even if you down loaded.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 6:31 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
On her timeline, while signed in, click on the button that say "Activity Log" to see what she's searched, liked, etc. You can filter using the left sidebar (expand the options by clicking "more") and be sure not to miss the hidden posts.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Betrayed444 (original poster member #38389) posted at 6:35 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 6:55 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Posts the person has hidden from their timeline.
Under "friends" you can also see when people were added or deleted as friends, etc.
And under "search" you can see when the person searched for who or what through Facebook.
"Comments" is another good one, because it shows her activity on OTHER people's pages.
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"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Betrayed444 (original poster member #38389) posted at 7:36 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Wow. Pretty good advice. Wish I could recover messages
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 8:36 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
You checked her archived messages?
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Betrayed444 (original poster member #38389) posted at 9:21 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Yes. Nothing new. Old messages over a year ago.
Onan ( member #33473) posted at 7:43 AM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
Best to get a keylogger B444. As far as recovering deleted messages - unless she archived it'd probably be a no go. With a keylogger you can gain access to her potential new fake FB account, new aliased email activity etc.
My case, when I got her FB password all she did was delete and delete often. This was usually followed with her messaging "deleted" or "cleaned" to POSOM.
Good luck
BS(me): 58
WW(her): 56
M: 23yrs
D-day: 8/25/2011
Divorced!
The two biggest mistakes in my life was putting trust in a wife.
lm2024 ( member #34759) posted at 3:19 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013
Messages that were deleted are never actually completely deleted. Downloading the data will give you the deleted messages too. It will also make them reappear in the account I believe.
Not true. Otherwise I would have busted my fWW long ago. Deleted facebook messages do not show up in the data, ONLY current and archived messages.
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 12:52 PM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013
definitely get a keylogger on laptop or desktop computer that she uses. she's giving you the password so you'll think your safe, but she's using something somewhere else. I hear eblaster is really good, runs around 100 dollars.
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
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