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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry Jada. I know this is hell and not how you wanted this to turn out at all. I know what you mean about going down this road before and it not being your first rodeo. It sucks really bad when they know you have been put through this hell before and then they do it to you too. The thing is he is really not worth your love anymore. He threw it away for what he will eventually see as a waste. (((HUGS)))

M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sad thing is they both have been cheated on and knows how it feels. That is why I don't understand how they can do it. I would never put another woman thru this, ever.

It is all I can do not to blast him right now, having a hard time holding my tongue. I have scheduled the mortgage to pay one day early on Friday so it goes in with our paychecks that night. I don't want to have to pay it on my own until I absolutely have to. I was told that he has to pay half of it but I fear he will not once he leaves. I will tell him he has to if not whatever he does not pay will come out of his part of the equity if we sell it.

I just don't understand how someone can hurt the one they say they love. It is his fault as much as hers, but she could have said no you are married, but she didn't and now planning a "future" with him. Ugh. I really just want to get it over with, but need to hang on for a few more days

And the skank calls him sweetie, that is the same thing I call him. He calls me baby doll, wondering if he calls her that

ETA: All night last night he acted like he had something to say to me, but never did. He even told me this morning he came back to see if I was asleep after I had gone to bed. Wonder if he is going to tell me he is leaving - I got me a nice little note written to send to him after I tell him that explains how I knew he was lying and calling him out on more lies. I know I will not remember it all once I start talking so want to be sure he knows how stupid he was. Apparently that skank is into all kinds of erotica, fantasy etc. He may be in for a wild ride with this one Just hoping I don't cry when we talk. I hate that.

[This message edited by Jada52 at 5:01 PM, May 29th (Wednesday)]

Silly Slut, husbands are for wives - get your own man B*tch!

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